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# Free dating for those with autism and asperger's

A freemium autism dating and friendship site

## Sitemaps

- [XML Sitemap](https://www.aspie-singles.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website.

## Posts

- [Blog](https://www.aspie-singles.com/blog/)
- [Why you can't find a partner?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/why-you-cant-find-a-partner/) - What are the mechanisms behind us not being able to find a suitable partner?
- [What it takes to (not) Break.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/what-it-takes-to-not-break/) - Growing up, I was very focused on things that interested me, often to the detriment of everything else. I would be admonished frequently by others – except, most of the time I hardly heard them and didn’t care when I did. When you have ‘weird’ interests, even just in intensity of focus and time spent
- [Why do people want to hook up?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/why-do-people-want-to-hook-up/) - Why do people want to hook up? Or dive in? Swipe right? This behaviour may be something I’ll never understand. But here are some theories of mine:It’s exciting,It’ll ‘work out in the end’ mentality sets in,It’s easy. We Aspies are not an alien species, however often it may feel that way when we’re trying to
- [How to be Successful at Online Dating for people on the Autism Spectrum](https://www.aspie-singles.com/how-to-be-successful-at-online-dating-for-people-on-the-autism-spectrum/) - This video is about “dating do’s and don’ts” for when you are on the autism spectrum. I could have added quite a few more but the pointers mentioned are the most important ones. I hope it will help you along. With enough responses I will make a part two where I would like to go
- [The Autistic Amygdala](https://www.aspie-singles.com/the-autistic-amygdala/) - The Autistic Amygdala An article is based on scientific research, brought to you in a simple way. There is a new article out on Essential-Change.org another website by the same maker. It is called the Autistic Amygdala and it explores the function of the amygdala in people with autism. It explores the social struggles, anxiety and other autism related issues from
- [Dating documentary casting in the US](https://www.aspie-singles.com/casting-for-a-dating-documentary/) - Aspie Singles has talked with an associate producer of Northern Pictures who is working on a TV documentary series in the US about dating and relationships featuring people on the autism spectrum and we wish to help them out. They are looking for SINGLE people, living in the United States, who are on the autism
- [How my Asperger-anxiety and I try to live together.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/how-my-asperger-anxiety-and-i-manage-to-live-together/) - Intro“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for everyvictory gained you will also suffer a defeat.If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War After doing some
- [11 online dating tips for Aspergians](https://www.aspie-singles.com/11-online-dating-tips-for-aspergians/) - A cheat sheet for online dating You can print these 11 pointers out and keep them nearby as a cheat sheet while you are looking for someone online. It is written to avoid some pitfalls while dating on the spectrum and will be useful for any online dating site. You can also use our printer friendly PDF
- [What’s the species of Neurotypicals?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/whats-the-species-of-neurotypicals/) - Neurotypicals are the species of non autistics. They come in all sizes and shapes. They never seem to get tired in peopely places. They can change topics in one second. They tolerate lots of noise, bright lights or something on their skin unless it’s very obviously standing out times 100. NT’s generally like to say what sounds
- [Focusing the focus...](https://www.aspie-singles.com/focusing-the-focus/) - Today my driving license, credit card and and bank card and an Ikea Family card got lost or stolen, but I don’t have anxiety. A few years ago this would have caused me a really severe panic attack and possibly a melt down, I would worry about every little detail of it, digging into all
- [New youtube channel - Meet your maker. ;)](https://www.aspie-singles.com/new-youtube-channel-meet-your-maker/) - Here is my first youtube attempt. I hope you like it. More may follow if it is met with appreciation. 🙂

## Pages

- [Autism Dating - Front page](https://www.aspie-singles.com/) - What is better than an autism dating site made by autistic for autistic people? We know the ins and outs of Autism and it is our goal to help you on your way.
- [Terms and conditions](https://www.aspie-singles.com/terms-and-conditions/) - Terms and Conditions Registration and Accounts 1.1 Eligibility: To be eligible for an individual account on our dating website, www.aspie-singles.com, you must be at least 18 years of age and must complete all the obligatory fields on the registration form(s). 1.2 Account Creation: You may register for an account with our website by completing and
- [About](https://www.aspie-singles.com/about/) - Would you like to know more about our autism dating site? This page will get you started... Here you will find a Contact form and all the information you need.
- [Members](https://www.aspie-singles.com/members-2/) - [peepso_members]
- [Membership levels](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-levels-elementor/) - Please pick your level. Don't forget to complete your profile after signing up. We will deactivate empty profiles. [pmpro_levels]
- [Membership Checkout](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-checkout/) - [pmpro_checkout]
- [Membership Invoice](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-invoice/) - [pmpro_invoice]
- [Membership Confirmation](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-confirmation/) - [pmpro_confirmation]
- [Membership Cancel](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-cancel/) - [pmpro_cancel]
- [Membership Billing](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-billing/) - [pmpro_billing]
- [Membership Account](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/) - [pmpro_account]
- [Login](https://www.aspie-singles.com/login/) - Login CAUTION!: If someone requests your contact details or suggests moving the conversation to platforms like Telegram, WhatsApp prematurely, they are most likely a scammer. Please Report them, and we’ll promptly remove these accounts to keep our community safe and secure! Thank you! Username or Email Address Password Remember Me Log In Lost your password?
- [Extended search](https://www.aspie-singles.com/extended-search/) - Enter Address... Age RangeGender -- All -- ManWomanA-genderTrans womanTrans manQueerGenderfluidIntersexNon-binaryQuestioningYour neurotypeADHDARFIDAutismBipolarBPDDepressionDyslexiaDyspraxiaDown syndromeOCDIntellectual DisabilitySPDTourettesNo diagnoseType of contactFriendshipActivity partnerRelationshipPenpalsCasual dating RadiusMiles1050100150200500 UnitsMilesKilometers
- [Opt-out preferences](https://www.aspie-singles.com/opt-out-preferences/)
- [Member Search](https://www.aspie-singles.com/member-search/) - Make these new members feel welcome by sending a friendship request Start searching here Search-2 Gender Man Woman A-gender Trans woman Trans man Queer Genderfluid Intersex Non-binary Questioning Search
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- [Disclaimer](https://www.aspie-singles.com/disclaimer/)
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- [FAQ](https://www.aspie-singles.com/faq/) - Read our FAQ and be wiser! We will provide you with a little FAQ. We will probably expand this when we get real questions (feel free to ask us) or when we just feel inspired. So we will expand this FAQ with actual Frequently Asked Questions later on. What is Aspie-singles.com? On this site people
- [Extended member search](https://www.aspie-singles.com/extended-member-search/) - Members map Below you find the all members map. You will see everyone that signed up, so there are some profiles that are little outdated… But still… Don’t hesitate to send a message to them if they seem interesting. They will possibly come around sometime or see the notification in their email. Good luck with
- [Autism Dating - Front page - Norsk Bokmål](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Autism Dating - Front page - Deutsch](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Autism Dating - Front page - English](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Autism Dating - Front page - Español](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Autism Dating - Front page - Français](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Autism Dating - Front page - Português](https://www.aspie-singles.com/landingpage/) - Autism dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism Dating - With us you can be you! Sign up about Autism dating made possible by autistic people Welcome to our unique Autism Dating site! What makes our site unique is that this website is an initiative by people on the spectrum.
- [Search Magic](https://www.aspie-singles.com/search-magic/)
- [User front page](https://www.aspie-singles.com/user-front-page/) - You aren't a member it seems. We would love to see you sign up though! Here are some instructions for using this site... Please take your time to read and to scroll down this page. How does this site work?You start with browsing or searching. If you see someone you like then you can go to step 2.Send
- [CHAT](https://www.aspie-singles.com/chat/) - Welcome to our chat function. Here you can text, voice and video chat with other premium, gold and platinum members. Also private.At the moment there is space for max 4 webcams and max 3 chat rooms.Send a message to an online friend for an invite if you’d like to chat.
- [Video chat](https://www.aspie-singles.com/video-chat/) - Welcome to our new chat function. Here you can text, voice and video chat with other premium members. Also private.At the moment there is space for max 4 webcams and max 3 chat rooms.Send a message to an online friend for an invite if you’d like to chat.
- [Search listing](https://www.aspie-singles.com/search-listing/)
- [Newsletter](https://www.aspie-singles.com/newsletter-signup/) - [newsletter_signup]Signup for the newsletter[newsletter_signup_form id=1][/newsletter_signup][newsletter_confirm]Thanks for your interest![/newsletter_confirm][newsletter_unsubscribe]Do you really want to unsubscribe?[/newsletter_unsubscribe]
- [Autism Dating Site - Asperger Dating Site and Friendship Site](https://www.aspie-singles.com/autism-dating-site/) - For autism dating and friends​ Who are new? Women Men No members found by the criteria. No members found by the criteria. Recently online… Women Men No members found by the criteria. Active 4 hours, 30 minutes ago Ewoud Geronimo the gerbil (who keeps our systems running) noticed that you are a basic member. We appreciate you
- [Om](https://www.aspie-singles.com/om/) - Liker du å vite mer? Denne siden vil komme i gang ... Kort sagthvordanhva hvorforhvemFAQVilkår og betingelser Kort oppsummert Det er vårt mål å ta bryet ut av vennskap og dating og å gjøre det enkelt å finne autistiske singler online! Å registrere deg for å få kontakt med noen som deg tar rundt 3-4
- [Add Listing](https://www.aspie-singles.com/add-listing/)
- [Location](https://www.aspie-singles.com/location/)
- [GD Archive](https://www.aspie-singles.com/gd-archive/)
- [GD Archive Item](https://www.aspie-singles.com/gd-archive-item/)
- [GD Details](https://www.aspie-singles.com/gd-details/)
- [Dashboard](https://www.aspie-singles.com/dashboard/)
- [search login](https://www.aspie-singles.com/search-login/) - [drts-frontend-login]
- [Users](https://www.aspie-singles.com/directory-users/)
- [Member search](https://www.aspie-singles.com/directory-member_searc/)
- [Add Listing](https://www.aspie-singles.com/add-directory-listing/)
- [Contact](https://www.aspie-singles.com/contact/) - Feel free to ask anything Your reason for contacting us Just a question I found a scammer/ spammer I have trouble signing up I have trouble making a payment I have trouble canceling my account Other Name Username (if you are member) Email address Message Send
- [Profile](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/profile/) - [pmpro_member_profile]
- [Directory](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/directory/) - [pmpro_member_directory]
- [Registration page](https://www.aspie-singles.com/registration-page/) - Do you encounter a problem while signing up? then please notify us via a message explaining where it goes wrong. Username (required) Email Address (required) Choose a Password (required) Confirm Password (required) Screen name (required) This field can be seen by: Everyone City This field can be seen by: Everyone Change Who can see this
- [Links](https://www.aspie-singles.com/links/) - Blogs MAX'S SHOP OF HORRORS This is a witty/ hilarious, touching and insightful blog by an aspie. There is lot to learn from and a lot to like. One of our personal favorites out there. Articles Dating with Asperger’s I’ll start this out by saying that contrary to popular belief within the adult community, that
- [Cookie Policy](https://www.aspie-singles.com/cookie-policy/) - This site uses cookies – small text files that are placed on your machine to help the site provide a better user experience. In general, cookies are used to retain user preferences, store information for things like shopping baskets, and provide anonymised tracking data to third party applications like Google Analytics. As a rule, cookies
- [Password Reset](https://www.aspie-singles.com/lost-password/)
- [Complete Registration](https://www.aspie-singles.com/complete-registration/)
- [Site-Wide Activity](https://www.aspie-singles.com/activity/)
- [Site Registration](https://www.aspie-singles.com/register-2/) - [peepso_register]
- [Groups](https://www.aspie-singles.com/groups/)
- [Membership levels](https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/membership-levels/) - Not a member yet? Register here [pmpro_levels]
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- [Home Dating](https://www.aspie-singles.com/home-dating/) - Find your true lve Gender Man Woman A-gender Trans woman Trans man Queer Genderfluid Intersex Non-binary Questioning Age 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52
- [Cookies](https://www.aspie-singles.com/cookies/) - What Are Cookies As is common practice with almost all professional websites this site uses cookies, which are tiny files that are downloaded to your computer, to improve your experience. This page describes what information they gather, how we use it and why we sometimes need to store these cookies. We will also share how
- [Recent Activity](https://www.aspie-singles.com/activity-2/) - [peepso_activity]
- [User Profile](https://www.aspie-singles.com/profile/) - [peepso_profile]
- [Recover Password](https://www.aspie-singles.com/password-recover/) - [peepso_recover]
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- [Aspie News](https://www.aspie-singles.com/aspie-news/) - Here we collect articles that are well worth to read... [kleo_articles display="grid" columns="four" cat="all" limit="" post_types="post" post_formats="all" show_meta="disable"]
- [Levels](https://www.aspie-singles.com/levels/) - [badgeos_achievements_list type="level" limit=20]

## Forums

- [Dating with Asperger's](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/forum/general-discussion/) - Please make your own topics. Feel free to talk about anything.

## Topics

- [Are Social Connections Particularly Difficult to Make Outside of the U.S.?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/are-social-connections-particularly-difficult-to-make-outside-of-the-u-s/) - The culture(s) of the United States make them difficult, but other cultures seem easier for autistic people to navigate.
- ['Autistic Women Are Being Hunted On Dating Apps'](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/autistic-women-are-being-hunted-on-dating-apps/) - or so he says https://inv.thepixora.com/watch?v=RzJb3-tsYUU&listen=false
- [Lack of interaction on site](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/lack-of-interaction-on-site/) - Is it just me, or has everyone else noticed how little interaction there is here? Hardly anyone seems active, and there’s almost nobody in my area, which makes it really hard to connect.
- [So what's new, everybody?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/so-whats-new-everybody/) - You can tell us all telepathically if you prefer.
- [Saw this & found it interesting](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/saw-this-found-it-interesting/) - what are your thought? https://sites.google.com/a/mail.harvard.edu/neuroscience/home?authuser=3
- [Article: Friendship Won’t Fix the Male Loneliness Epidemic](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/article-friendship-wont-fix-the-male-loneliness-epidemic/) - I just think it's an interesting and useful article, and I can relate to it. It's focused on men who seek intimate relationships with women but I think some of it is relevant to androphilic men too. https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/friendship-wont-fix-the-male-loneliness-epidemic/ Basically the article says that friendship doesn't stop men from feeling lonely because 1. social norms relating
- [Maintaining Active Profiles on Mainstream Dating Sites](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/maintaining-active-profiles-on-mainstream-dating-sites/) - Is it worth it? Even when there is/are not a lot of matches or site activity, being open to multiple avenues to finding dates seems ideal, especially for people who have trouble finding dates. In my experience, however, non-autistic people will find criteria to negatively judge that I have never even conceived of, and some
- [Mainstream Social Media Is Inferior](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/mainstream-social-media-is-inferior/) - At least one person on a small dating/social media website like this one has asked me for a link to my profile on a large, popular social media site (Instagram). And someone else on that site mentioned that several other users tried to get him to communicate over Skype. My problem with sites like these
- [It's possible to message people before sending friend requests on this website](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/its-possible-to-message-people-before-sending-friend-requests-on-this-website/) - I don't know why people send me friend requests without saying anything to me. Maybe when there was a paid membership option, people had to be friends before messaging, but we can message first now. If you don't send messages AND you have an empty or almost-empty profile AND you rarely/never post on the forum,
- [Autism-Specific Employment Services All Seem Like A Waste of Time](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/autism-specific-employment-services-all-seem-like-a-waste-of-time/) - There are several companies now that claim to specifically serve autistic job seekers. I've browsed the websites of several of them and even tried to apply to a couple, but none I've found so far are viable options, mainly because they don't really deal with the neurologically disabling aspects of autism. One I applied for
- [Looking to make friends - boyfriend in Portland, OR](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-to-make-friends-boyfriend-in-portland-or/) - Hi there, Just joined Aspie Singles and wanted to find out if there is anyone else but me in the Portland, OR area? It is ok to get into conversations online but if you do not live in my area it makes it too challenging to make friends that you can hang out with. I
- [Spectrum Focused Dating Platforms](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/spectrum-focused-dating-platforms/) - Sharing My Experiences With Spectrum-Focused Dating Platforms (Posting this to help others stay safe and avoid wasting time or money.) Platform: Autistic-dating.com Status: Appears to be a scam / uses website redirects / heavy bot activity / very shady support practices. After creating a profile (even using images and a bio openly stating the site
- [Chronic Insomnia](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/chronic-insomnia/) - Does anyone have experience treating chronic insomnia without medication? Waking up too early, specifically. I'm already exercising, taking melatonin and magnesium, eating well, avoiding blue light at night, and keeping a dark bedroom and a consistent schedule. I don't have pain or any sleep disorders.
- [The cure for autism](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-cure-for-autism/) - One bullet. One gun. You know what to do you humorless sexless losers!
- [Happy Incel Pride Month!](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/happy-incel-pride-month/) - I just wanna wish all my autistic incel buddies on here a happy incel pride month! Here's to another miserable lonely year of never knowing what sex with a woman will ever be like. YAAAY!!!
- [Why is there so little activity on this website?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/why-is-there-so-little-activity-on-this-website/) - Are you all busy with life off the Internet or is all the action via private messages or what?
- [Greetings](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/greetings/) - Any women from Birmingham uk
- [Advice for navigating and finding love here?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/advice-for-navigating-and-finding-love-here/) - Hi people, I just signed up yesterday and I'm new here! So excited to meet people! This doesn't seem like the typical dating app with swipe right/left format. Tips for using this?
- [I'm Brad from the UK](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/im-brad-from-the-uk/) - Hello, My name is Brad, of the UK, and I am new to this community. I was recently diagnosed with autism and I hope to expand my friends circle, or possibly find a girlfriend. I have tried out different friendship and dating websites for those with autism, but it sadly seems that many connections are
- [came back to my profile after been gone a year or so](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/came-back-to-my-profile-after-been-gone-a-year-or-so/) - well i completely for some time forgot i had a profile on here and when i cam back onl2 2 messages from deleted users figures another dating site useless for me to be one
- [Late diagnosis in life at 64](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/late-diagnosis-in-life-at-64/) - So I find myself in yet another chapter of my life, at 64 I find myself facing a otisum diagnosis and I am seeking that spatial connection in my life that has always been lacking and hence my reason for being on this site, so ware should I begin?, I suppose I knew I was
- [new to this](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-to-this/) - Hi, I've just signed up to this. I have autism and special needs I would like friendship and eventually a relationship but near to where I live. I help at the food bank and also a shop called of the record would love to chat with someone my age Im 21
- [Dating through Aspie Singles](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dating-through-aspie-singles/) - Is anyone actually dating someone they found through this site?
- [Proximity Search](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/proximity-search/) - Could anyone let me know if the proximity search works for them? I set it to 20km of my location and I'm getting places on other continents...
- [Looking for a friend](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-a-friend/) - Hi, I am new to this site. I am 20F, looking for a long term friend that I can share my life and experiences with. I hope that we can talk daily. Learning about myself having autism has been freeing yet difficult at the same time. But I still want to be positive and enthusiastic
- [New here](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-here-2/) - Hi! I just registered and am trying to find my way around the site. I have tried lots of other dating websites without much success so I'm hoping this one is different! What has your experience been?
- [Fake profiles with proof](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/fake-profiles-with-proof/) - How to reveal a fake profile: Right click the profile picture of the account in question > click "copy image" > go to google.com > click the camera for "search by image" > right click the text field that says "paste image link" > click "paste" > click "search" > click "find image source" >
- [Routine- is it helpful or demotivating?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/routine-is-it-helpful-or-demotivating/) - I oscillate between enjoying routine and becoming bored by it. How is routine for you? Any helpful tips for building discipline?
- [Anyone from South Wales, UK???](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-from-south-wales-uk/) - Hello. I'm Tom Caseley Jones. I am a new member, I was wondering if there was any fellow members on here. That also live in Wales? Especially the South???
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- [anyone in saint Paul MN?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-in-saint-paul-mn/) - looking for someone to chat with in my area
- [Hello everyone](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hello-everyone/) - Hi I'm Scott and hoping to find some connections on here. I've been on the autism spectrum since a child. Anyway going through all these struggles alone is really difficult so hopefully I can make some friends and even a soulmate if that's even possible,lol. I admit I haven't had much success in relationships but
- [Dungeons & Dragons](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dungeons-dragons/) - does anyone like to play dungeon & dragons or tabletop roleplaying games in general?
- [The difference between men and women with ASD in regards to sexual behavior...](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-difference-between-men-and-women-with-asd-in-regards-to-sexual-behavior/) - A study was done on the differences between men and women with ASD, as well as men and women NTs (neurotypicals), in regards to sexual behavior. This is what they found: Link to the study. 1. Of people with ASD, women were 3x more likely to be in a relationship than men. 2. Comparing men
- [Looking for a gentle girl](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-a-gentle-girl/) - Hi, i am Mark from Rome. I am looking for a good person to spend my time with. I would like to try having a relationship but I have not found the right person yet. Cheers
- [Any ASD women 20-45 willing to relocate or already in SoCal](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/any-asd-women-20-45-willing-to-relocate-or-already-in-socal/) - I can Handle rent, utilities, food and entertainment for us. I live in a two bedroom townhouse but it’s just me. I love fantasy and science fiction video games etc. I’m very creative and I’m a decent cook. I’d cook dinner for you and have it ready for you by the time you cans home.
- [Looking for female friend share apt free](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-female-friend-share-apt-free/) - I have ASD need female companion like to talk 1st get to know each other before deciding to try living together. Apt is nice townhouse two car garage Food and streaming and cooking on me Unless u want to help I’d like to learn more. If you’d agree to clean… I rinse etc. I’d make
- [Australian members](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/australian-members/) - Hi, I have just joined today. I'm unable to find any search selections for specific areas, can anyone advise? The websites support form isn't working 😐 Thanks
- [The Netherlands 🇳🇱](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-netherlands-🇳🇱/) - Hi 👾 Are there any people from the Netherlands on this site?
- [Feeling accepted](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/feeling-accepted/) - All of us the aspies deserve to be accepted as we are for our partners, family and friends, wherever, we all have something that make us unique and the potential to prosper in life. What autistic man and woman would not give anything to be accepted?, Many underestimate us that we cannot find or do
- [Dating websites](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dating-websites/) - It’s getting harder and harder to find someone these days. It hurts like hell to wait.
- [Hi. I'm new here.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hi-im-new-here/) - Hello. I'm new here. How is everyone?
- [Hello, new here](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hello-new-here/) - Hi! I'm Kacey and I have Asperger's :)
- [When a man is searching his true love](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/when-a-man-is-searching-his-true-love/) - The love is the best feeling that a person can have to another, parents, kids, brothers, sisters, family, but also when a man falls in love for a woman and that she also falls in love with the man regardless anything; No matter what it takes or how difficult it is done to the man
- [ASD assessment on Monday](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/asd-assessment-on-monday/) - I went for an ASD assessment on Monday morning. The doctor got my sisters phone number to go over questions with her. The doctor said it takes about three weeks for him to write his report. I was already diagnosed as an aspie since 2008 but never had a ASD assessment before this. I've been
- [Seventh-day adventists in the Spectrum](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/seventh-day-adventists-in-the-spectrum/) - Hello! Are some seventh-day adventist members aspie here?
- [Looking for a Male friend.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-a-male-friend/) - Male Aspies! What do you like in a friend/partner?
- [What is your favorite stim?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/what-is-your-favorite-stim/) - I thought off making a new topic where you can tell how you stim.
- [Finally I am taking a ASD assessment](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/finally-i-am-taking-a-asd-assessment/) - I am half way through my ASD assessment with a psychologist. Yesterday we spent almost 5 hours working on the test. When I was at school (even till grad school), I dreaded any kind of examination. However, even though I felt so burnt out at the end of the day, I am glad that I
- [Polyamorous Aspies?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/polyamorous-aspies/) - I'm curious if anyone here is polyamorous and if so, what your experience has been as a poly Aspie.
- [New, how does this all work :) ?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-how-does-this-all-work/) - Hello, I’m completely new to this or anything remotely like this. How do I “properly” (for lack of a better word) utilize this website?
- [Notifications not working at all](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/notifications-not-working-at-all/) - Even though I have all of them turned on. I don’t get notified of anything any more it’s really getting annoying
- [Gaming and movies?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/gaming-and-movies/) - Hi I am new here! I want to try and connect with others. What are your top 5 favourite video games and movies? Mine are (video games) 1.Zelda Ocarina of Time 2.Zelda Majora's Mask 3.Undertale 4.Gmod 5.Resident evil 1 remake Movies: 1.Spirited Away 2.Star Wars The Empire Strikes Back 3.The Shining 4.Matilda 5.Lord of the
- [The Struggle with Finding A Partner](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-struggle-with-finding-a-partner/) - Since most of us have Autism/Asperger's, I think I can safely say that we can all relate to stories of Autistic people struggling to find the perfect partner. Everyone here, I predict, has had a few leads we thought were going well, but ultimately, go nowhere because our interest already has a partner, or we
- [Add Giphy support to chat](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/add-giphy-support-to-chat/) - Howdy, I speak memes fluently. It would be really cool to have an easy way to share memes on the chat. I'd like to suggest to look into a Giphy integration for the chat - there's plugin for that, but I have no idea if it works with the site setup. https://wbcomdesigns.com/downloads/buddypress-giphy/
- [Gamers at heart](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/gamers-at-heart/) - Yes I am 34 years old and have my act together but from time to time I like to play video games and to be honest it calms my nerves. If you are a like minded person. Feel free to be yourself and have fun.
- [This is tough](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/this-is-tough/) - I'm new on the site. I was diagnosed at the start of this year. I have sent some friend requests and am hoping to hear back from them. It looks like a lot of people don't seem to be very active? I'd love to make some friends and talk to like minded people. It's difficult
- [Fictional Books About Characters With Asperger's](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/fictional-books-about-characters-with-aspergers/) - Have you read any? I haven't read any books about characters with Asperger's, specifically, but the next best thing I can think of is John Green's Turtles All the Way Down. The protagonist, portrayed in the first person, if I recollect correctly, has OCD. Green portrays what's it's like to reconcile inside feelings with an
- [Snail Mail Letters](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/snail-mail-letters/) - We're all pretty spread out around the globe, but I find that an old fashioned letter can still bring people closer together. It's easier for me to talk to people through writing than in person. Maybe it's the same for you? Just add me as a friend, or jump on this thread, and climb aboard
- [New here and not finding women in my area](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-here-and-not-finding-women-in-my-area/) - Hey, all! I'm Mike. Im at the point now where I am looking to meet women on the spectrum but I'm having little luck. I'm not having success with Bumble. And with Hiki and this site as well I'm finding very few women in my area. Am I not using the search correctly or is
- [wwe](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/wwe/) - dose anyone here likes wwe or pro wrestling in general
- [Hello I'm New!](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hello-im-new/) - Hey everyone! I'm new to this site but I haven't made an official announcement yet. I'm Aaron, and I'm 20 years old. My special interest is movies, and my other hobbies are video games, drawing, and stuffed animals. I am a very laid back person so don't feel like you have to be "fancy" or
- [Autism Book](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/autism-book/) - Hi, I am developing a book about Autism. It will hopefully be used to help people to understand it better, to prevent misunderstandings. If you are interested in writing your story or the book to help people to understand Autism better using your story, please let me know. You can find "That's Autism" on Facebook
- [Hey, I'm new!](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hey-im-new/) - Hi everyone. I'm Bianca, I just joined to hopefully meet like-minded people. I've always found it difficult making and keeping friends. I'm a bit nervous about this and am not sure what to say! Hope everyone is having a good day so far!
- [Site issues](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/site-issues/) - There's something weird going on this site. I had someone send me a friend request, but I couldn't accept her friend request because I couldn't find her profile. I was able to find her profile through the email that was sent to me alerting me I had a friend request. It's showing she was last
- [Question Regarding Other Dating Sites](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/question-regarding-other-dating-sites/) - Has anyone tried out DisabledMate.com or AutismChatCity? I'm just wondering whether I should delete my accounts on those sites if those sites are scams that are full of catfish.
- [Useable payment cards](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/useable-payment-cards/) - When I tried paying for my account upgrade, I was given a message that reads something like "This card does not allow this kind of payment". What card should I use to upgrade my account?
- [Why is nudity allowed in PG and U films if it the back of the character you see](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/why-is-nudity-allowed-in-pg-and-u-films-if-it-the-back-of-the-character-you-see/) - I have watched a few old children's films recently and noticed that in snowman you see the bay getting change from PJ to outside clothes and you see his arse I know its drawn and in others films as well you see a naked character from the back but it you see the front of
- [Thoughts on Love on the Spectrum](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/thoughts-on-love-on-the-spectrum/) - It’s been a while since the show aired on netflix and was wondering what people here thought of it? My thoughts are, finally someone got it right for the most part but I did have a few minor niggles with it. Mainly that the participants were only setup with other aspies and would have liked
- [Pro 2 membership](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/pro-2-membership/) - Is this site a scam or something I purchased pro membership and I had a girl send me a friend request I accepted it try to send a message and it doesn’t even load proccesing showing it’s sending and never sends. I’m suppose to be able to message people but I can’t.
- [How not to make a great first impression](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/how-not-to-make-a-great-first-impression/) - Hi guys, I'm new to the site, generally bad with social media, and have already made a mistake - first sending a message to the wrong person, then, having corrected that error, realising I'd missed the rule about asking for a friend request, waiting for acceptance, and only then messaging people. The aspie side of
- [Hi I'm new](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hi-im-new/) - I've recently been checking out sites for people with Asperger's, ASD, depression, etc. I believe I may have slight Asperger's, but the reason I'm doing this is because I'm searching for people with these qualities. I happen to be an introvert with anxiety and neurotic thinking caused from a (to put it lightly) troubled past.
- [does annyone else see only there folts and not wat is good](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/does-annyone-else-see-only-there-folts-and-not-wat-is-good/) - Well hello there. I am new to this site and i have been stugaling to even get in to conversation with people as all i can see are my folts. lik hy bad spelling, I struggle to follow conversation in a crowded area, I struggle with metal insterblaty at time and trust but when it
- [The stereotype of lacking empathy](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-stereotype-of-lacking-empathy/) - thoughts...
- [New Member/Anyone from Champaign, IL](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-member-anyone-from-champaign-il/) - Hello all, My name is Alex Towers. I am a graduate student studying on-campus at the University of Illinois Champaign-Urbana. I am in my second semester of a master's program in library sciences and it is my dream to work in the youth services department of a public library (hence my username choice of librarylover).
- [New these sites](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-these-sites/) - Hi all hows things. Sitting in during this pandemic has me creating hobbies out of thin air and I did plan on meeting someone this year, but with everything closed thats difficult. So I figured i'd go online to try meet new people. Im good for chats and banter as much as I am looking
- [Searching comrades for project ignite.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/searching-comrades-for-project-ignite/) - Hello everyone before 5 hours of post I started project ignite officially as leader and game designer of the project.so what we aim we aim these things writes below. -in first phase of project adapting at least most 2000-2008 pc games to debian and other debian derivates like ubuntu -in second phase we target adapting
- [Anyone from the Temple, TX and surrounding region?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-from-the-temple-tx-and-surrounding-region/) - I live in Temple, TX which is part of the Killeen-Temple-Fort Hood metroplex region. Are there any women from this region here? I am asking here because member searching only gets me zero results.
- [I'm New Here](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/im-new-here/) - Hi, I am Wesley. I have never tried online dating before. So I am here to explain why I came. I have decided if I was to have a new partner, it should be someone on the spectrum. Like me. I also tried an asexual dating site to see if I could have some friend
- [New Here](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-here/) - Hi. So is anyone in or near the Medina, Ohio area? Looking for a life partner (women only). Sorry if that sounds harsh. I'll be friends with anyone that's nice though so. Must be able to put up with my nerdy hobbies :P I hope it was okay to post this, I can't seem to
- [Beware of Scammers](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/beware-of-scammers/) - There have been issues on another website in which there have been several scam profiles created. Please be careful on here. If someone asks you for money, that person needs to be reported right away, because the person is likely a scammer. Unless you have met the person personally or done a video chat/FaceTime with
- [Location and distance filter](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/location-and-distance-filter/) - How do you search by location and distance?
- [Compatibility Indicator](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/compatibility-indicator/) - Does anyone understand how the compatibility Indicator works? I don't fully understand it very well.
- [Same sex attracted](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/same-sex-attracted/) - Wanna connect with other gay,bisexual / aspies??
- [Chatroom](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/chatroom/) - I can’t send texts in chatroom. Has anyone else ran into this issue?
- [Youtube Channel](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/youtube-channel/) - I've started a youtube channel today and have gotten some very nice feed backs. This makes me think of making other videos on different topics. I wonder if there are topics that any one of you would be interested in? It can be anything dating or relationship-related or a more general autism related topic. Any
- [Dating miscommunications](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dating-miscommunications/) - Anyone interested in creating a thread of Aspie to NT misunderstandings? :)
- [Hi](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hi/) - Hi everybody! I’m Cassidy. I’m new to this site. I’m 26 years old. I’m from Mississippi. I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome at around 17 years old. Hope to meet some wonderful people on here!
- [Can’t upload/edit profile picture](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/cant-upload-edit-profile-picture/) - When I tried to upload a profile picture while creating my account, it claimed there was an error. Then when I tried selecting “edit profile picture” nothing happens. Any idea on how to resolve this?
- [Premium Membership Payment Issue](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/premium-membership-payment-issue/) - Problem is as titled. Having an issue paying with credit/debit card. Once info is typed out, and submitted. I receive a [card was declined] error message. Despite knowing full well that I have the funds on it to pay with. Any advice folks?
- [About: Premium Life Membership.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/about-premium-life-membership/) - I couldn't seem to find an adequate answer within the other forum threads I'd sifted through. So, figured I'd just ask for myself. Pertaining to the "Premium Life Membership;" is it a flat fee of $20? Or is it like a monthly rate? Again, maybe it was just me, but it didn't appear to be
- [Blogs](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/blogs/) - I really enjoy writing about my special interests through blogs and decided to create a forum topic that is dedicated to blogging. I believe that the efforts to articulate our feelings and thoughts on our special interest and life experiences will help start conversations and break the ice. Feel free to write about anything.
- [What are you looking for?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/what-are-you-looking-for/) - Let’s use this thread as a message board where you share what kind of person would you like to meet. What would your perfect partner be like? It tells a lot about you too, so maybe someone else like you will notice you here... Just give it a go :)
- [Cant send messages.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/cant-send-messages/) - Hi when I try to send message to someone I get a error like" this message was not send please try"I am basic member but before I could send messages without this error.if someone help I will apreciate it have a nice day.
- [the bots have landed, can a feature be added to block](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/the-bots-have-landed-can-a-feature-be-added-to-block/) - ive got two messages sitting and i am not going to respond to them (due to clues being obvious that its a bot), and was hoping that while blocking is not great for everyone, i would like to block or at least report the accounts as spam and or bots
- [Oh no! Broken links on site](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/oh-no-broken-links-on-site/) - Every menu option I choose from the upper or lower menu on the site brings me to the same "oops, don't give up" page with a search bar. I can't get to member search or even contact info. Ewoud, I'm so excited to find your site, thank you for doing this for our community. Can't
- [Northern Ireland aspie hear 👍](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/northern-ireland-aspie-hear-👍/) - Looking a relationship with a woman age 20 -35 Interested in possible relocating for a relationship to thanks get in touch women only please no guys 👍👽
- [Hello I am looking for  female friend.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hello-i-am-looking-for-female-friend/) - Hi,everyone I am looking for female friend who is; -Loyal to me and understands me -Doesn't tries change me -Also messages me too,İf I am only one who send text except replies I feel lonely. -Muslim,Christian,Jewish -Finally She isn't a scam. I am such like person who are; -Hate small sounds like finger sharpening and
- [Site Troubles](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/site-troubles/) - My name is Hann82. I have been having trouble contacting tech support on this website. I have also been unable to make any changes to my membership settings. This is very bad because I have no way, apparently, to contact the web master, customer support, neither the owners. Does anyone have the same issue? I
- [Looking for a potential romantic partner](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-a-potential-romantic-partner/) - Hi, I am new to the service. I am searching for a potential girlfriend, but I am also apprehensive since I don't find online dating sites very comfortable to use sometimes. I would like to find a girl who likes art, history, or English (writing, literature, etc), as much as I do. The neurotype can
- [I'm looking for a girlfriend. Does anyone want to be friend?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/im-looking-for-a-girlfriend-does-anyone-want-to-be-friend/) - Hi everyone.Firstly Sorry for my bad english.I want be only friend with aspie girl,I don't like dating.I prefer friendship with muslim . christian and jewish girls.I'was diagnosed with asperger when I'am 7 years old.I accept everyone as they are.I don't try to change anyone.because I believe that everyone will change by their own will. i
- [aspie boy looking for someone to talk to](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/aspie-boy-looking-for-someone-to-talk-to/) - Hey, I am Eren and I am looking for someone to talk to but I have no idea how to use this site. I would like to meet someone in here and maybe we can talk via Skype, etc. If you have any questions, please ask and I will answer ASAP. Thanks ^^
- [Finding/being interesting pen pal?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/finding-being-interesting-pen-pal/) - Hey, I'm new to all of this, so sorry if this is weird. I came to this site hoping to expand my both social circle (currently a deflated social lump) and my understanding of autism and how to deal with it -- I pretty much just learned what autism actually is when I was hit
- [dating relationships and intense interests](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dating-relationships-and-intense-interests/) - Hey i wonder if anyone has any thoughts on the concept of dating and relationships for when it comes to people who have intense interests. I am one of those Asperger's who has intense interests, I also like a lot of time to myself. So was trying to work out a way to date but
- [Any one else having trouble paying for membership?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/any-one-else-having-trouble-paying-for-membership/) - I was attempting to check out with the lifetime membership and found that the site was having trouble processing my payment. If anyone has a solution or is experiencing the same thing please let me know.
- [Late Diagnosis?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/late-diagnosis/) - Was anyone else diagnosed at a later age? I was in 2015, at the age of 22.
- [Any women on Tenerife, Canary Island?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/any-women-on-tenerife-canary-island/) - I'll like know you!
- [Movies](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/movies/) - What have you been to see lately? I've seen Venom and Johnny English. Loved the movie First Man - the story about astronaut Neil Armstrong. Thought it was done in a realistic manner - it wasn't over the top and wasn't "sugar-coated."
- [looking for a boyfriend](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-for-a-boyfriend/) - looking for someone who is 6'1 or taller and nice and isnt over weight . who loves indie rock and has a neutral hipster style . must be either from the uk or from canada or near new york with a basement . thank you .
- [Any artists here? (or scribbles and bits, and bits, and bits)](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/any-artists-here-or-scribbles-and-bits-and-bits-and-bits/) - Who among us has drawing or painting as one of their special interests?
- [i think im just imaging things/going crazy or something.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/i-think-im-just-imaging-things-going-crazy-or-something/) - soo idk if i'm just imaging things or just going crazy but the other day when i went out with my friends around town & we were stopped at the streetlight & the other cars from the other lane was driving by & i see this red car driving by & i see someone looking
- [Aspie math enthusiast here.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/aspie-math-enthusiast-here/) - I am a number loving Aspergirl seeking companionship from someone with similar interest. Currently in college learning electronics engineering. Prefer an aspie friend who is also socially awkward.
- [I’m lonely](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/im-lonely/) - Hi everyone: Put simply I need a hand to hold and lots of hugs. I’m rather lonely sadly does anyone else get extremely lonely if they don’t have physical contact?
- [NT & AS conections](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/nt-as-conections/) - I think I am right in thinking that all of us as human beings like to find people like us because we can understand each other better and feel comfortable. but so the relationships of the NT with an aspie are often misunderstood but there are cases like mine that do not go very well
- [Asperger's diaries](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/aspergers-diaries/) - this is something I did a lot and when I found out about being on the spectrum it totally made sense. I have always been big into playing video games. I spent a ton of time playing them, maybe too much, growing up. there was a time when I went over to a kids house
- [how do you get along with people at work](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/how-do-you-get-along-with-people-at-work/) - for those of us who work for a living, 1/3 of your life is spent at your job. people tend to develop friendships with the people they work with. me personally, I don't talk to anyone at work. I go in, do my job, and go home. I think this has angered some people at
- [Dla kogo kamagra ?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/dla-kogo-kamagra/) - kamagra opinie cenaInternetowa witryna medfaq.pl to największa kopalnia ciekawostek odnośnie do ludzkiego zdrowia. Internauta, który otworzy ten serwis, będzie mógł powiedzieć profesjonalistom własne zapytanie, aby kolejno zdobyć odpowiedzi od wieloletniego lekarza. W działach odzywają się także normalni Internauci, dlatego eksploatatorzy portalu są w stanie własnoręcznie doradzać innym ludziom, jeśli znają się na konkretnej problematyce. Na
- [messaging and friend reqests](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/messaging-and-friend-reqests-2/) - Am I the only one here who can't get my responses on this site to work when i get a friends request or send a message?
- [messaging and friend reqests](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/messaging-and-friend-reqests/) - Am I the only one here who can't get my responses on this site to work when i get a friends request or send a message?
- [aspie girl looking for someone to talk to](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/aspie-girl-looking-for-someone-to-talk-to/) - I am looking for someone to talk to but i have no idea how to private message someone, i have pictures of me but only if you add me elsewhere.:) If you have any questions feel free to ask.
- [Admin notice: Glitches after securing the site?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/admin-notice-glitches-after-securing-the-site/) - Hi, Does anyone experience glitches when sending messages or find anything else that seems out of order? I have encrypted the site to make it optimally secure. This basically means you find "HTTPS" before our url and a lot of technical mumbo jumbo. This improvement has brought some inconveniences that I managed to resolve quite
- [Error message on all most all pages.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/error-message-on-all-most-all-pages/) - For three days I can't go on any pages to the site, all I get is 404 page not found on them. Anyone else having that problem ?
- [Am I doing this wrong? Only finding 2 women in the UK](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/am-i-doing-this-wrong-only-finding-2-women-in-the-uk/) - Hi, I'm not sure if I've misunderstood how to search or if the result reflects the site's small userbase but I'm only finding two women registered here from the UK. Anyone else getting a different result? Thanks.
- [Anyone in the New Jersey area?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-in-the-new-jersey-area/) - Anybody in the Jersey Area?
- [notifcatons?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/notifcatons/) - can anyone tell me why all my notifications are all blank?
- [Do you guys know what this means?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/do-you-guys-know-what-this-means/) - the other day in class i was staring into space & i was looking at the trash can while i was staring into space. and the girl i liked was walking over & she was looking at me while i was staring into the trash can. then later i was staring at the wall &
- [Association game.](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/association-game/) - I thought that it might be a fun so start an association game. The only rule... You write down the first word that comes to mind after reading the word the former person posted. I’ll start “Mad Hatter”
- [New features](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/new-features/) - Hi, Some new feartures have been added to the site. 1. The option to “poke”. If you feel uncomfortable initiating a conversation but you like someone’s profile a lot then you can poke. If the poked feels like poking back then you had contact at least and you can start a conversation by telling why
- [Anyone celebrate a special day or holiday?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-celebrate-a-special-day-or-holiday/) - So I was curious. I am from Mexico and here the upcoming special day is November 2nd. It's the day to celebrate and remember the life of our dead. It is most commonly celebrated by people in the south of Mexico when compared to the north. It does get pretty hectic in the downtown area
- [Looking to meet up with people in London and surrounding areas](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-to-meet-up-with-people-in-london-and-surrounding-areas/) - Hi All Anyone in London and surrounding areas interested in meeting up for chats and shared activities? Currently only looking for friendships. Not interested in pubbing or clubbing but can be flexible around most activities
- [Someone girl?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/someone-girl/) - Hi, my name is Carlos Henrique, I'm brazilian, 30 years old, graduated in History, still living with my parents. I was diagnosed Asperger adult, altough I did treatment since my childhood, I've studied all my life in a regular school (public), started to work at 23 years by a affirmative action. I like to talk
- [Aspies worl Holiday retreats?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/aspies-worl-holiday-retreats/) - Does anyone know any world holiday retreats for us aspies !? Thanks and greetings
- [Romantic songs](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/romantic-songs/) - Thought I'd start a list with some nice love songs that I like. Your contribution is welcome, but please provide the name of the band and the title in or above the link. I'll start off with this one: John Waite - Missing You
- [A cautionary tale](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/a-cautionary-tale/) - I thought I would take the time to share a cautionary tale, and you may derive from it what you will. A few months ago I was TAing a gen chem lab at my school and ran across a wonderful fellow aspie for the purposes of this story I will call Amanda. At the end
- [Look To Make Friends/Maybe Find Romance?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/look-to-make-friendsmaybe-find-romance/) - A Little about myself.... Hello, My Name is Spencer. I am from New Jersey, but, I also spend my time abroad in the Cayman islands. I am an independent screenwriter (of Both TV & Features). Currently, I am a student, working towards a paralegal certificate. Through my Paralegal certification, I hope to forward myself towards
- [Any aspie girls around Little Rock?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/any-aspie-girls-around-little-rock/) - Hey guys, I'm new to the site and wondering if there are any aspie or aspie friendly women around central Arkansas.
- [Trying to emerge from loneliness](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/trying-to-emerge-from-loneliness/) - Hello, I am new to this site. Actually, I have been searching on an online dating site to no avail. I don't seem to relate to many of the profiles. I did manage to go on a date, but it didn't work out. My date gave me the hint when she starting yawning. I am
- [Howdy!](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/howdy/) - Howdy people. My name is Mastermind. Im looking for a girl like me to date or a a friend that understands me at least a little bit. Anywho, I'm new to the forums.
- [Not Diagnosed](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/not-diagnosed/) - Hi all. I am new and I have never been diagnosed. Does anyone have some advice? I'm 44 this year and didn't think it would do much good to start the diagnostic process now. Anyways, Hi everyone :). Isaac.
- [Hi everyone](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/hi-everyone/) - Hi all, my name is Adrian and I joined a few days ago. I'm 27 and I come from South Africa. I have mild Asperger's and I'm looking for a special girl in my life. I think someone who has a similar condition to me would make a really nice partner, as I just cannot
- [Looking to chat with a thoughtful aspie man :)](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/looking-to-chat-with-a-thoughtful-aspie-man/) - Send me a message if you would like :)
- [Is there anyone out there?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/is-there-anyone-out-there/) - Hi everyone, I signed up to this site last weekend and since have messaged several different people but still no replies. I wanted to see if there's any life on the forums and was wondering if anyone still uses this site as there seems to be a lot of 'dead' profiles on here. Not that
- [MOZART & the WHALE](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/mozart-the-whale/) - Has anyone seen mozart & the whale...? I feel that I am a combination of the main boy character (josh hartnett) & the main girl (radha mitchell)... I find with my weirdly extroverted (sometimes) bizarre personality, that is totally TMI (too much information)... that I scare people away (potential friends and/or dates)
- [instagram aspie community](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/instagram-aspie-community/) - There seems to be a lovely instagram aspie community... I made an insta to document my aspie issues and also one called aspieadvice ... Anyone on there? Feel free to follow my advice one & send me a message saying you are from here and I'll add you on my personal one... I am on
- [disheartend and sad](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/disheartend-and-sad/) - So I have been on a lot of dating sites and really haven't had any luck or traction with finding someone to share my life with as it were. Currently on tinder, because why not, holly hell to webcam bots are Bleeping annoying and really easy to spot. Not sure if my profile may be
- [Editing profile data](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/editing-profile-data/) - Hello. =) Just signed up. How do I edit my profile? I noticed some people have chosen more than one of certain parameters, and I would like to make my profile more complete/who I am ... *AspieGirl*
- [Anyone in the south? (US)](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-in-the-south-us/) - Anyone around the Nashville, TN area want to date or talk? Member search reveals I am the only one in this area; thought the forums might reach a wider audience.
- [Articles  on dating!](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/excellent-article-on-dating/) - I found this excellent article about dating from an Aspergian perspective, if you come across one please share it here.:) http://m.mic.com/articles/75299/what-it-s-like-dating-with-asperger-s#.UeZeFgS5z
- [Do you actively seek out a romantic relationship?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/do-you-actually-wantactively-seek-out-a-romantic-relationship/) - I think I'm just on here to meet like-minded people. Also I don't expect anyone to actually live closeby. But I'm demisexual, so most of the time when I'm not crushing on someone or anything I'm pretty much asexual and definitely aromantic. I've never understood why people actively seek out relationships. All my previous relationships
- [When is the right time to mention Asperger's?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/when-is-the-right-time-to-mention-aspergers/) - This is something I've often been confused about. Initially on sites like OKCupid, I mentioned Asperger's on my profile page itself just to let people know, but since removed it because I wasn't sure if that was the right place to mention it. But if I'm messaging someone there, and didn't mention it on the
- [Anyone else tried other dating sites?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/anyone-else-tried-other-dating-sites/) - I have, mostly sites like OKCupid or occasionally POF, but have always struggled holding conversations with people there
- [That very first date](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/that-very-first-date/) - I wonder what your tips are on a first date. Wen to have a first date, especially how fast. I have found out that I really need to level with people first. Become familiar with their interests and with them, so that some solid common ground has been established before we meet. Even though I
- [Suggestions for this site?](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/suggestions-for-this-site/) - I am very open for suggestions for this site so feel free to discuss any idea you have to improve this site.
- [I find people off the spectrum lie too much](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/topic/i-find-people-off-the-spectrum-lie-too-much/) - I have always been very sensitive to lying. I know how to lie but prefer to find people that can handle the truth and because of my ASD I don't emotionally react to things so I would people be truthful and just work through consequences. I have a hard enough tying to read people when

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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/37102/) - Hm, yes that is the big question - what ... looking for....? Hm, my whole life I was told "you are too much this... why do you react like that ... what is wrong with you...." and I did my best to fit in and failed over and over again. When I was older than
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/37099/) - Wow, I wish I had discovered this website and forum earlier (I'm new here today). This is so interesting to read—thank you all for sharing your experiences, I really appreciate it. I am learning a lot from this forum. As for me, I was diagnosed late in life (after many burn-outs at work) when I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36741/) - Thanks for staring! That is a very good video!! Important!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36728/) - Women don't want to date us autistic men, that's why prostitution should be legal.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36722/) - I completely agree DragonEmbers.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36721/) - I'm sure everyone who has logged in more than once or twice has noticed. I have a suspicion that some people want to use this purely as a dating site, meaning they don't want to post or interact unless they can possibly get a date out of it. More activity on the forum, however, could
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36720/) - If I remember correctly, there have been studies on dating sites showing there are usually more men than women, which already makes things tougher. Also, it’s been reported that women tend to only swipe or message around 10% of men they consider high quality, while everyone else rarely, if ever, gets a message or finds
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36718/) - I know what you are talking about. I am in Australia and there are no other people here in Australia. I hardly login in to the site because there are not many females on here, let alone females in Australia. And you are right, there doesn't seem to be many people on here regularly. Also
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36710/) - Autism Speaks hiring for the most autism-inappropriate job ever on an autism job board: https://www.hireautism.org/job/remote-remote-coordinator-advocacy-temporary-remote-washington-dc-atlanta-or-east-coast/ Assist with volunteer and constituent correspondence via email, phone, social media, grassroots digital databases or other platforms. Support local volunteer/intern recruitment through outreach and recruitment at universities, organization of application and interview process and oversight of 1-2 volunteer interns per
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36675/) - Pop in Saints Row 2 and get to the press start screen and listen very closely. That is what I am looking for. Maybe a latina one?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36668/) - App: Haik I wanted to share a quick update regarding my recent experience with Haik, as I’m unable to edit my original post. I gave it another try, and unfortunately, I came across a lot of fake profiles, as well as some accounts being used for advertising purposes, particularly by sex workers. While I understand
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36657/) - Well I don't have any problem with the term Asperger's, but it doesn't apply to all of us, so sometimes I wonder who people are talking to/about when they mention only 'aspies' in a general autism community. But maybe this doesn't apply to this thread because OP was referring only to himself.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36655/) - Hi Pri, I found that pretty relatable. Liked the section on Empathy. Also the expresses more affection than neurotically people. Often in this space its assumed the opposite. It was nice seeing the true reality in writing. The social ques and misunderstandings and steps to avoid it are thought out. This is good material, whom
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36637/) - Hi Dragon, You’re definitely not alone. This topic sets people off in just about every space I’ve seen it come up. Here’s the straightforward answer with a little context Asperger syndrome was officially rolled into Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) in 2013, when the DSM-5 was published by the American Psychiatric Association. That’s when it stopped
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36636/) - The story about your gaming experience growing up. I still have a friend like that. I'll head over there, watch him play, hang for a few hours and leave. That's been the relationship for 30 years, haha. Neither of us are great on small talk. But share the same interests. That is truly enough some
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36531/) - "Asperger's diaries." I've begun to notice when people talk about the autism spectrum as if it's 100% Asperger's Syndrome. This website is even named after 'aspies' even though it's apparently open to all autistic people. Why do people talk as if AS=autism?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36530/) - That's good news at least it has some value. My area, they stopped filling them out quite a long time ago. Glad to see if still works to some extent.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36523/) - Yes, there were some profiles that gave useful information about the users' personalities. I was searching in the San Francisco Bay area at the time, there are some very political people in this area, and I saw a lot of things about politics on profiles, especially just after Trump was elected president for the first
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36522/) - Your right, there will be some abuse. I like your idea about the one time activate tag. That would make it more of a chore. Holy cow about your experience with the tag by the way! Question, on that site, when you were on it. In your area did anyone fill out the profiles with
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36516/) - Plenty of platforms added tags and searchable movements that shows on their profile picture. Yes, that's a good idea, however, it has a downside: I used one of those features on OkCupid. Two people abused the system by temporarily adding the same tag to their own profiles. I was then visible to them and they
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36515/) - Given this more thought. The platforms could implement tools for people like us to find each other, with more privacy. How this could be done. Today most people make a movement their identity. Platforms were more then happy provide the tools. Plenty of platforms added tags and searchable movements tha shows on their profile picture.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36514/) - I'm looking for someone who lives nearby and can appreciate my autistic bluntness and complete honesty. I live in southeast Idaho where it's hard to meet like-minded people nearby. But I'm not opposed to doing things online if I really like a person. What it comes down to is trust for me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36511/) - I feel the same way on the privacy of those. You asked if you think it's worth it. Short answer, you never know how things might change in the future. Open door can't hurt anything. Just approach it plainly and fill in the blanks off-line on any condition stuff. That way it's not out there.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36506/) - From personal experience, it makes people more comfortable when you try to become friends first and then have that friendship transform into a romantic connection. That's probably more true of women than of men.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36491/) - When you first join and open a profile, that + sign next to the photo looks like you click that to expand to see more pictures. When, in fact it just sends a friend invite. Oh. That explains why someone sent me a friend request and then never logged back on.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36489/) - I have cognitive empathy, meaning I understand the feeling, but I am not going to become paralyzed by it. So instead of patting the person on the shoulder and say «that must have been so awful», I instead aim to help the person so that they get better. So for me: Emotional empathy = superficial
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36486/) - Honestly, given that non-autistic people murder their own autistic children or abuse them into acting "normal," what they say about empathy is rather a joke. Plenty of them fail to empathize with autistic people or even people in general. It's possible that what they call "empathy" is actually just being similar enough to other people
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36485/) - I avoided this problem by being a freelancer, working from home. However, the stress of continually dealing with new people, continually having to find new clients, even via the Internet, was probably somewhat similar to the social stress of dealing with co-workers.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36459/) - It's so ironic. This is the only disability dating site I've found that doesn't charge us men permission to talk to girls but there is next to zero participation from women here. It's amazing that there are websites that think it's OK to charge us people with disabilities when we have everything working against us
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36450/) - I will migrate this site to diverseconnections.club my plan was this year so I have a timeline. It won’t only “cater for autism but for neurodivergence and the focus is not dating but simply connection… I wonder how much connection there will be among these different groups. They don't necessarily have anything in common.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36433/) - Yes, possible to message people without a friend request. Sent a few myself, it works. The reason for the blind friend invites is two reasons. Reason one. When you first join and open a profile, that + sign next to the photo looks like you click that to expand to see more pictures. When, in
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36432/) - Yes, possible to message people without a friend request. Sent a few myself, it works. The reason for the blind friend invites is two reasons. Reason one. When you first join and open a profile, that + sign next to the photo looks like you click that to expand to see more pictures. When, in
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36431/) - Routine goes the distance for me. It is the peace keeper. Like to know what I am doing, when, where. I can budget the time I have on hand so everything is met. It is also important because, it represents the only thing left to value or chase. Really need that motivation, knowing I have
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36429/) - These companies are not actually built for autistic people. They are built to make employers feel progressive. They treat autism as a personality variant or a mild social deficit, not as a set of neurological constraints. That is why the offerings make no sense in practice. • Full-time only roles ignore energy limits, commute cost,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36423/) - Try to build up the routine from things you actually like to do; that helps you stick to it. Do something different on days you're tired of the routine. Have multiple routines and switch between them. Pick appropriate times of the day for the unpleasant things you need to do, such as: first thing in
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36408/) - Click "Members area" at the top right of the screen. On the next screen, click the plus sign that's right next to the words "Proximity search." Scroll to the bottom of the menu that opens, where it says " City is within."
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36388/) - Hey, my name is Emily I will be 27 in February and I have had such a difficult time finding friends and a boyfriend where I live in Oregon. I have attended a few neurodiverse meet ups and speed dating events and nothing much materialized for me. I just joined this site and was wondering
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36370/) - *space reserved for future updates*
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36369/) - Platform: autisticdating.net Status: Inactive Member for two years. No new users during that time. Existing users seem legit, what I would expect to find in a dating site designed for spaced like us. But, it's been quite for years.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36311/) - Looking for someone to marry a Muslim man. A Muslim believes in one God and no other and believes Prophet Muhammad is the final messenger of God in the line of Prophethood started from Prophet Adam. Peace be upon them all. I am a muslim woman living in Toronto Canada. I discovered through case studies
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36268/) - You’re welcome, and thanks for putting so much time into giving us this space. I’m really glad you connected with some of the ideas. Sorry to hear you’re dealing with burnout. I'm just now coming out of a long one myself. Like you, I was only diagnosed a couple of years ago, so I’m still
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36267/) - Hi! Thank you for your encouragement. I think I needed some. I like all your ideas and some like the forum ones we should do! Perfect… videos… maybe… I am recovering from a severe burnout and have just gotten 100% disability. As I am a jack of all trades (and a master of none) I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36266/) - I really enjoyed the video, great job, especially for a first one. That’s not easy to put out there. I actually learned a few things, especially the part about loyalty. I had no idea. Everything you had to say was relatable. What really blew my mind, though, was how similar our communication and mannerisms are.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36265/) - I'm looking for someone who’s high functioning on the spectrum. Someone kindhearted, sweet and gentle, but also with a bit of an edge. I find intelligence and humor really attractive, and deep conversations are what I value most. If you're someone who can be playful and serious at the same time, we’ll probably click. Self-respect
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36247/) - I seek a long lasting relationship with someone serious
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36226/) - I know I definitely don't want a woman who went to college because their heads are filled with anti-white male hate by their overpaid proffessors who all commies.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36172/) - It's so nice to read a thoughtful reply on here; I wish other people would post. Yeah trying to date non-autistic people is probably a huge waste of time and energy in many if not most cases, at least in the culture of the United States. For me it was just barely manageable when I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36170/) - Hi DragonEmbers, I understand your take and the reason you feel that way. The classification is exact, its the procedure for dating stereo typical people. It does take a lot of work. For me that looks like putting the burner on ruminate for a few days and see what shakes loose. “Where ya from” leads
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36155/) - The day before the date, write out some good questions or topics, keep them in your pocket (literally or mentally). If the conversation goes dry mid-date, excuse yourself to the bathroom, check your notes, and come back ready with 15 new things to talk about. Spend a day on google maps. Set a 20 mile
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/36105/) - Here are a few things I’ve learned that made dating way easier (and a lot more fun). Hopefully, some of this helps you too. The day before the date, write out some good questions or topics, keep them in your pocket (literally or mentally). If the conversation goes dry mid-date, excuse yourself to the bathroom,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35901/) - Scammers always pretend to be white American girls and they ask "Where am I from?" Even though it's on my profile!!! They also ask "Why am I here," I suspect these scammers are men in India because only that country is poor and pathetic enough yet tech savy enough to want to E-beg us Americans.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35740/) - A girl with a impregnation fetish like me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35729/) - Thanks for sharing the article, thought provoking! What it had to say about greater sexual desire with men with ASD. I must agree. It has caused minor issues in dating when it comes to compatibility. Not matching energies in that area especially if you want to build something real with the person is not a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35582/) - There have been many studies also showing that differences are often attractive to men and women. Autistic folk and other neurodivergent folk can appreciate this. My theory based on personal, 2nd hand, and evidence I have read is that it is not 'attractiveness' but ability to figure out how to connect with others. Because of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35566/) - It's something I am still working on. One piece of advice I was given is that I should practice some of what I plan to say or ask when I am by myself. For me, sometimes I stumble over even the basics!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35565/) - I am looking for a woman who loves the Lord, will encourage or challenge me where needed, is into staying active; and hopefully is attractive.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35530/) - Plan a short date for the first date. Short dates put less pressure on both parties and escape is easy if things go wrong. For example, meet for a drink instead of meeting for a whole meal. Or just ask to hang out instead of asking for a date. That should be even less pressuring.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35529/) - Maybe I'll just keep posting threads until there's more activity.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35500/) - I feel like no one wants to talk to anyone anymore these days. People are so quick to throw others away because they made one little off-color joke or they don't agree with them on every issue.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35449/) - I'm looking for a partner who has a passion for some sort of creativity! Drawing, sewing, building, cooking: anything that my partner can express herself through makes me happy that she's happy! Alongside that, I'd like to make a life with someone where we're equals that respect each other. We'd send each other memes and
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35393/) - I feel something changed recently. I am not receiving messages and people are not receiving my messages. The chat does not show up unless I go and click on a persons profile and then click message. How to chat if no one can see the messages
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35355/) - I disagree with the opinion that they are not attractive.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35326/) - You all have answers to the question asked which is in the "Spectrum of Connection" Message me I'll share pdf with you!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35325/) - Yes, I've created an ebook for those on the spectrum regarding how to find love. Spectrum of Connection is the best book you will ever find useful to you! Let me know in message if you need
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35284/) - I've had wonderful sexual experiences with autistic men. But I'm also on the spectrum so their quirks make sense to me and I don't find a bit of social awkwardness or even clumsiness or inexperience unattractive at all. Quite the opposite...I find the arrogant "alpha male" nonsense of neurotypical men unappealing.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35278/) - It seemed so simple in my mind...co-creating a life with someone based on mutual respect and care and some shared interests. A place where we felt free to be ourselves together. I created this for myself. I think it'd be better shared. But relationships are always a disappointment because they feel non reciprocal. Effort is
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35235/) - At my age, after never ever having a real life girlfriend, I'll take what I can get. Beggers can't be choosers. Do I have low self esteem? Ya. That explains all those zeros in my name.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35233/) - I have a rule: never give people on the internet money!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35151/) - Exactly, autistic men are not attractive, while women fall in love with hearing that is the biggest weakness of autistic men. They don't have good social skills at all, they are probably shy or confused. What if they want to say nice things?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/35085/) - Privately message the person you like and be patient/don't have high expectations of getting a reply because there doesn't seem to be a lot of activity on this website. Personally I don't like it when people send me a friend request with no message, so I'm inclined to say 'don't do that,' but maybe other
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34996/) - I'm new and I haven't found anyone through this.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34938/) - Wow, you got married young.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34924/) - I met my wife on this site around 4 years ago, it had some life in it then. Me and her are now divorcing so it kinda sucks that it's dried out since then.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34892/) - Yeah, it's pretty dead.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34749/) - I miss the times when they would bother me. Now it is just dead. Maybe they got me on a poster over people who are not worth bothering.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34726/) - Also be mindful of how AI software can make photos look real.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34725/) - The user Dedex is a scammer because "she" was asking me for money on groceries.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/34545/) - Humble minded is a scammer, will share pics and life events, then will ask for money
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33825/) - Leg bouncing. I sit in an office all day. Can't sit still so I'll bounce my legs. Privately at home, hand flap on occasion. Very mindful of these with masking and hide them well.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33824/) - That's pretty interesting. When I was young compatibility was common. However as I got older everyone's drive decreased, mine did not. That really put a wedge on compatibility to move forward. Out of all the relationships I've had, the only one that was truly compatible with me on this subject, she was on the spectrum
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33737/) - An artistic quirky yet God loving individual who will accept me for who I am. Someone who I can share my world with. To know more about me, read my profile.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33679/) - A practicing Christian man of God who understands Genesis 2, Ephesians 5:22-33, and is here to pursue his potential helpmeet. Put God first and the rest will naturally follow.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33430/) - Pretty much what everyone else said: someone who accepts you for being you, affection, things to do with, to feel loved, I don’t want to sound like a broken record but I think everyone gets the idea.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33428/) - I'm looking for the girl of my dreams. I recently got back into writing short stories, although I did cheat a little with AI. Turns out Copilot is a pretty great writing assistant. Also, no worries, I'm not expecting you to be a Disney princess, lol. I'm just looking for someone I can be happy
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33298/) - I'm looking for a musically talented (singing especially) eccentric and artistic soulmate (guy) who is God loving and also into nerd/pop culture stuff. Also an outgoing and understanding personality. I'm on the mild asperger's scale. Emotional and financial stability is also a must. Also some friends who share similar interests to me (click on my
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33277/) - Hi Just joined. trying to navigate this site.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/33001/) - I will post a quote lyrics by Richie Furay and sung by Neil Young. Kind woman Don't leave me lonely tonight Please say it's all right Remember once before you're hearing The old folks say Love's an ageless old rhyme But now a days you know the sayin' depends so much on The kind of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/32278/) - Do you have instagram or FB? IF you're able to message, we can add each other on there.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/32274/) - Wooow, you like Boruto?! Let's be friends, then and talk about some crazy theories and whatever pass in our minds!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/32273/) - Wow, we like the same things, except bdsm, I'm not into that. The Boruto manga is sooo good!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/32261/) - My name is Gabriel Jean Renaud Vitória, and I never really have an long term relationship, would be nice if we find each other. Besides that, I’m also looking for new friends to do something together, even if means online things. Since I’m in Brazil, and the most people here are far way. But I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31704/) - I will do unpopular jobs and will work less desirable shifts. I will also listen to people talk about the stuff they are proud of, their accomplishments or let them talk about their dark stuff, traumas. It seems like people like me more when I do this. I also downplay behavior commit on as being
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31691/) - The book is basically finished. I am just trying to work out how to receive the money to publish it.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31680/) - Are there any updates on the book?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31667/) - I was taught to hide it which has caused difficulties in the long run. So now I am trying something new for me. Like when people start comparing me bringing up similarities to fictional charters like Big Bang Theory, Young Sheldon, or others you get the idea, or something along those lines. I may bring
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31666/) - This is probably not what you are looking for exactly, but These are some things I have heard about where a main character is or maybe on the autistic spectrum. Simple Simon by Ryne Douglas Pearson [First Published in 1996] made into Mercury Rising (1998) Tru Confessions by Janet Tashijan [First Published in 1997] Tru
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31639/) - i think its working as intended, as if there are no options within your search perameters, then it expands until it finds a group, but thats based on my quick testing, and i have no info on how it actually works
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31575/) - Past tense, dated, yes.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31395/) - I'm here to chat with lots of friends. I'm not here for commitment, some of my friends in the past I have known for 10 years, sometimes they go on to other friends and I find other friends too, I don't know what happens. I have a lot of skills creativity innovation music acting (improvisation)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31272/) - Im not sure anymore. Anyone whos nice.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31271/) - I'm really starting to think masturbation is much worse then previously thought.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31266/) - I too would like a friend with autism, I was diagnosed in my early thirties Would love to hear from you, my name is Daniel crescentcitycreations2008@gmail.com Write to me, see if we want to exchange numbers? I’m highly creative and inventive, socially awkward naturally.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/31065/) - Time flies. It has been over a year since I received my ASD diagnosis. A while ago on a Discord server someone who got a late ASD diagnosis told me it took him more or less a decade to fully accept his Autism. I chuckled. Now I am afraid that it may take me longer
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30842/) - When I got anxious, I liked picking off dead skin from my elbows and the back of my legs. (I don't like using body lotion so I usually end up having very dry spots on my body: not a big fan of sticky skin products) Not sure whether that is a kind of stimming or
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30778/) - Why "fuckbrain"?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30775/) - Thanks Detective Fuckbrain!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30760/) - Hi, any one from Los Angeles, on here? Looking for a kind, fun girl to date.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30712/) - Hi Hen, Thanks for reply, I'll look it up. The guy that runs this has been so helpful with any questions and I'm pretty sure he does it all on his own, so I think he does pretty well. I actually chatted with someone who lives quite close 🙂
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30711/) - I’m also having a hard time navigating this dating site. I recommend HIKI for a more user friendly experience. Much like tinder you swipe but it is free and for folks on the spectrum only. That being said I have never had a match but I’m still pretty new to this online dating world.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30696/) - Not necessarily, but you can see if that image exists elsewhere on the internet to hopefully find the REAL person in the photo. If it's a fake profile, the real person in the photo will probably be a famous model or influencer, like the example I gave above.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30695/) - Oh people use google images as a profile pic, is that what you mean?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30694/) - Awesome Brendan 🙌 What strategies do you use when you don’t feel like doing min-max in the morning?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30691/) - First one: https://www.aspie-singles.com/members/leticia101/ Proof: Samantha González is the person in the picture
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30680/) - It's helpful but you have to do it gradually. Us aspies have a tendency to min-max everything, but I would start with one thing at a time. Also, you have to have good things in you routine. The best for me is: Take a hot shower, read for an hour, exercise with power, then you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30663/) - How would you feel about getting to know me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30649/) - Hey Zack 👋 Greetings from Oz 🙃
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30648/) - Hey man I'm in West St. Paul!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30647/) - I'm Zack from Minnesota. Nice to meet you all! What I'm looking for is friendship and if something more happens, CH-CHING!!!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30646/) - - Feeling the tips of my fingers - Bending my knees slightly which makes my body pop up and down a bit. - Feeling my top lip with my bottom lip - Feeling my eyebrows in a very particular way - Pushing up on my foot that makes my knee bounce and move in various
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30637/) - Oh gawd, i hit reply on Tropical beach life’s post but this software doesn't work like daaaaaat!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30636/) - Hey, your near me somewhere! Yay!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30604/) - Physical, spiritual, Playful, Compassionate, Humorous Connection. Acceptance for who I am and where I am as an individual. Someone interested in self-care, improvement, healing, and giving back to the world.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30602/) - *disregard the last post* I edited it but it wouldn't let me save.* How/why did you arrive to a conclusion that because of ASD that you are inherently less attractive? Interesting study. I didn't have time to read through it but a few thoughts come to mind: - Did they differentiate between various levels of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30601/) - How/why did you arrive to a conclusion that because of ASD that you are inherently less attractive? Interesting study. I didn't have time to read through it but a few thoughts come to mind: - Did they differentiate between various levels of autism and particular autistic traits? My guess is that they didn't which means
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30598/) - My most common stim is some kind of weird form of delayed echolalia. It's less "repeating things I've heard" - though that's a part of it! - and more "talking in an endless stream of conscious thought". Sometimes it helps me clear my head and makes me less anxious and tense. But it tends to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30590/) - I knead my feet 100% of the time and always having some level of friction happening
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30588/) - As I've been struggling to find someone that I connect with on various levels, it seems to be very difficult. I don't understand why because I'm an easygoing guy and I like to treat my dates the best as I can. I have no expectations other than hopefully laughing and enjoying each other's company by
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30587/) - I was on Hiki. It's a dating site for people on the Autism Spectrum to make new friends and relationships. It was okay, it wasn't impressive. Aside from that, I tried Match but I got no responses. Maybe it's my profile. I'm still not giving up on trying to find a good dating site. Has
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30586/) - Hey! I'm fairly new to this. I hope I get some responses. 😊 I'm 24, soon to be 25. The last few weeks I've spent over at a gaming convention in my city and saw the new Super Mario movie. Looking forward to the Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 movie next. I enjoy going
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30449/) - - Have Legos in my office to fiddle with when I start to get anxious. Legos also help with context switching between projects. - Carry a small piece of strong, pleasantly scented soap to put under my nose if smells are too strong, like when someone cooks with garlic or onions. - Paint my nails
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30420/) - a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30416/) - Also why does it say I posted this on the 15 at 1:30AM when I posted it on the 14th at 10:47 PM
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30410/) - It’s very difficult especially for men when there are more of us and less women available who are using dating sites. Take into consideration all of the men who are trying to message one woman and you realize how painful it is for a guy to find a woman as a romantic partner. Women will
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30409/) - I used Okcupid and ended up in a long distance relationship with someone for a few years. Sadly it didn’t work out.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30404/) - How do I select multiple "I am looking for a" and how do I make it so it says I am looking for 1 or more who are? Also, how can you befriend someone without chatting first like the free membership offers?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30350/) - As a person who strives to never make typos, if a girl could point out the typo (I made one) in my transliterating of Russian, we might be soulmates.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30349/) - I suppose rejuvenating this thread might be in order. I joined recently. I spend a lot of time just thinking-when I go out places, and I'm alone, I try to balance my time on the phone (reading or talking) with good old pondering time. I actually came to an interesting conclusion, I think, judge me
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30336/) - Tried OKC, without much success :/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30301/) - huge wrestling fan since 1981.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30245/) - Plenty of Fish, Wrong Planet (pretty old dating website that had asperger/astism on if I am remembering the name right) and Bumble (best one I have use as I meet at least one person and got to known other people too). I have join one called loveawake but not much going on with that so
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30240/) - Interesting. But remember, the study isn't necessarily saying anyone has a "high" or "low" sex drive, because that is subjective, but rather they are comparing sex drives. And I just found it interesting that the group that has the highest desire for a thing also has the least amount of that thing. This is obviously
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30239/) - I must be one rare female with a high sex drive but was late to know about sex and masterbating.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30222/) - Hi there. I'm new to this site. Any suggestions to new people joining?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30193/) - Hi, nice to meet you.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30136/) - There doesn’t seem to be too many people on here, is this site dead?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30129/) - Hello everyone. I just signed up with a paid membership and see what happens. I'm hoping to find someone with similar life experiences and to love and be loved.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30051/) - Sorry all those typos! Can't edit lol
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30050/) - Hi all, I'm wondering if any LGTBQIA females have a special interest in the tropical simple life? I'm sitting here, right now, in paradise,army favourite beach, slanted palm tree on front of me and the wages lapping at my feet....I'm so blessed. But...no one to share it with. I'm happy being alone mostly, but times
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/30015/) - I would like people I can connect with. It would also be great if I could find a romantic connection.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29984/) - Yep, I do.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29958/) - Hi, I just started here, as well. I have not had any requests accepted yet, but there's always hope. I am not an extrovert, and I really only want one woman who can be in a committed relationship, and I like who I am and I would prefer an Aspie because I like and understand
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29880/) - I’m looking for a woman who lives in Illinois (preferably close to Poplar Grove). Furthermore, I’m looking for someone I can form that special connection with. As such, someone who I can be open with, understands me, shares common interests and has compassion for others. Above all, I’m looking for someone I can have a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29776/) - I love WWE, I see SMACKDOWN and RAW all the time.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29522/) - Hey people I am pretty new here, but thought I should give the website a try. I am living currently in Portugal, but I am a nomad (was born like that or grew up travelling). Not sure how strong my Asperger syndrome is, but it is not so easy and I will not go again
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29521/) - Hey people I am pretty new here, but thought I should give the website a try. I am living currently in Portugal, but I am a nomad (was born like that or grew up travelling). Not sure how strong my Asperger syndrome is, but it is not so easy and I will not go again
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29518/) - Ah ah no entiendo
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29514/) - Hi, nice to meet you.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29513/) - Me too, and hi, I hope you find a gentle woman too, don't give up.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29449/) - We all have are guilty pleasure in one form or another. It’s just we take all sorts of lessons out of each game we play I think
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29430/) - Great news. I got an apartment and a car. Now I just need a lady friend.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29419/) - Same here
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29418/) - I’m a cis gendered man, I’d like to meet a gentle kind woman too, good luck.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29416/) - I am looking for a kind person who can gently relate to me. I would like to try to have a relationship but I feel i haven't found the right person yet.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29263/) - Video games help me relax from all the demands of life. I often play older games like Final Fantasy and Battletoads, but I do have a Switch and recently beat The Great Ace Attorney Chronicles. Next I'm looking forward to playing Bravely Default 2 and Pokemon Scarlet/Violet when that comes out! If I could play
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29252/) - Well said. We have our quirks and weaknesses, but we can get along with people and have relationships. As you said, "Just be yourself." Sometimes we have to do things differently from what the neurotypicals typically do. For me, socializing is hard so I can really only developing a relationship by doing things together. I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29202/) - Crescent City Creations 2012 at gmail dot com
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29201/) - Apt is in Alhambra, CA 91801 Message me here
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/29178/) - Final Fantasy 14 has been my guilty pleasure the last few years.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25931/) - We do deserve to have it all, as much as the next person. I used to be myself all the time....as I've gotten older I have recognised that I often get... judged and misunderstood. I will still be myself...but need to find some good people in my world, true friends nearbye. It's hard but I'll
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25930/) - Great thread idea, thanks. To be seen and understood. Real life hang outs. Reciprocation whether it be with friends or a partner
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25854/) - I kind of like playing video games. I don't do it all the time, but when I do, it's fun. I play video games like Fallout New Vegas, The Sims 2, or Call of Duty: World at War.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25853/) - Tell me about it. Finding someone who matches your criteria can be difficult.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25825/) - Thanks for sharing these! Let's keep building the ASD Library!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/25005/) - hii
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24849/) - That’s awesome it’s good to be a gamer it keeps me focused. But still look for the that special someone to share that you know
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24765/) - I love gaming as well, I play almost every night. 👾 I play fornite, fall guys, genshin impact and right now I’m obsesseb with multiversus. I like trying other games as well but these ones stick with me. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24536/) - Always have been gaming since I was born
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24449/) - That is unfortunate; scammed by an actual woman, or a loose paving stone pretending to be human in a Nigeria/India call center?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24323/) - Lol. I haven't melted either, but I've come close. I'm ok. Just got scammed by a woman.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24302/) - That's good, because people can know how to work with autism.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/24301/) - Hey Austin, I'm fairly new here myself. I'm doing well and still haven't melted due to the heat, yourself?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23970/) - My friend, I am 39 years old and I have been gaming since 1986. It's in my blood, and has done wonderful things for me over my entire life so far, especially since I'm an aspie.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23968/) - Yes...yes, this is most certainly agreeable regarding the poster above me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23967/) - I think for everyone here on this site the desire is quite potent. We search, we hope...but ultimately, I have found in my near 40 years of life now that in the 21st century it is incredibly difficult to find anyone who can even remotely relate to people like us, even our own "kind." :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23911/) - Well, I have similar feelings, but I will give up until I find my future partner and wife(although I am also satisfied with having that woman that i know as a girlfriend at least), no matter what,in middle school I had a crush with a classmate once but she told me that she did not
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23907/) - Indeed :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23780/) - Friend: direct explicit communication (minimum of slang/euphemisms/hints etc), some shared interests with differentiation in our abilities/knowledge so we have something to offer each other rather than just being off-brand models of one another. Partner: add to the above, completely dependable and physically affectionate.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23758/) - Hi, I'm not polyamory and I never saw a polyamory couple but I had heard and readed about polyamorous relationships in other countries and its very similar to polygamy in my understanding, I remember seeing a news about polyamory in argentina and latin america, what I think about it is that polyamory is another form
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23723/) - I got informed today that I passed the ASD assessment and will be getting help from my regional center.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23679/) - Nothing wrong with skyrim. I play it for a while
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23673/) - I enjoy playing Skyrim, even though it is a bit outdated
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23632/) - You're the owner of this website?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23580/) - World of Warcraft isn’t to bad just expensive and halo infinite is good I hear. Never heard of cobra Kai as a game tho
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23574/) - I haven't gotten the results yet and now I'm being told it can take 7 weeks, so I could have a few more weeks to go. I can't wait to hear the results. Hopefully I start getting help soon.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23571/) - That is the result of being the owner ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23567/) - Where did you get the keymaster title?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23566/) - I was playing Halo Infinite until my game went bonkers after the new update. R.I.P Now I'm stuck playing World of Warcraft.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23564/) - Someone kind, sweet, loving, understanding, and accepting. That's all I really want. I'm not perfect, I don't have everything, and I have flaws that keep me from being successful like other people my age, but I want my future lover to know that I'm trying, and is working at my own pace. Someone who is
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23556/) - I like video games even more if I'm boring, there's one of various video games I have is Cobra Kai the karate kid saga continues.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23493/) - What I'm trying to say is that we can find the women of our lifes.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23492/) - Hi, I know how are you feeling about not finding women to talk or have a relationship, even more for me because I'm autistic, and sometimes I have the words but can't say it, but it doesn't mean thay can't finda woman to talk or have a relationship with, sometimes we have to be patient,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23224/) - I would like to find lifelong Friendships, and possibly a gf/future wife. I have a lot of acquaintances but no one I can truly consider a friend cause in the end I don't actually matter to them...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23216/) - One more thing I want to say is just that I want to see honesty of that woman regardless from how painful could be.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23214/) - Hi, I'm here to make friends and finding a woman to love and have as my life partner because of how I am and not for how they see me or how I act. I don't care her physical, lifestyle, thinking, her likes, if she is whealthy or from the middle class, the age preferably
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23209/) - Manga called Asper Girl. Both protagonists are on the spectrum. https://mangaowl.net/single/55450/asper-girl
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/23196/) - Hi, my name is Juan and I'm here to make friends but also I'm seeking a girlfriend too. I want a woman to love and make her my life partner not only because I want, but also to not be alone in the future, I lost my brother in 2016 followed by other relatives giving
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/22881/) - Someone who loves art and can manage wealth. Someone to be my companion for the rest of the days I have to live.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/22827/) - I have had a feedback session with the psychologist on a Zoom call. I have ASD. That's the official diagnosis. Life goes on. Now I am going to order some autism awareness T-shirts to wear for the summer and tell Karen from work to go to hell with her emotions. I don't have time for
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/22799/) - My name is Abe, I'm 24, and I have known myself as an aspie since I was 12 years old. Originally born and raised in Los Angeles, CA, I'm an aspiring disability rights activist seeking to make a difference in the world and when not working as a life skills Teacher with Autistic students or
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/22385/) - Their brain.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21953/) - I am looking for my best friend.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21942/) - I'm having the same issue.Actually I have yet to find any women that want to be friends online. I had a couple talk to me right away but quit talking just as fast. I feel like I wasted money on this site.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21851/) - I'm Fishface, 26 years old from Egypt I'm not here for dating tbh cuz my life is a big pile of camels shit and it's not the right time to think about dating but I'm rather looking for a friend cuz I feel so alone these days and my life is getting worse, especially when
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21849/) - Let's kick this topic off with my own stims... 1- My most common stim, my public stim, is the one where I rub my index fingers and thumbs together. I do this usually while my hand is closed while rubbing the sides of my index fingers in a circular motion with my thumbs.I also flick
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21826/) - Hi, Someone responded in a lovely email to Aspie Singles. I will post it here: "I found this site to possibly recommend to my (adult) son, and was exploring the Forum a bit, and wanted to answer a question, but I am not a member. About 2 weeks ago, someone asked about fictional books with
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21769/) - I'm looking for a companion in my area. I don't go often but I like going to casinos and movies. I'm 38 will be 39 this coming April and I've never been on a date yet, so I'm here looking for my chance.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21678/) - There were take-home assessments after the appointment. In the period of two weeks I have finished almost 2 dozens tests (including 3 tests that needed an observer's inputs). I feel lucky that one of my friends from work was willing to put in the time and effort to help me finish the task. Now I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21566/) - Yes! Love it. I wrestle myself. Whos your favorite wrestler?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21475/) - That’s pretty cool. I have been a gamer for a long time and also one of the top 100 people in the US that has been on a raid team to be in destiny 1 and 2. Also completed the content all the way through.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21462/) - I have a Guinness World Records medal and certificate for worlds longest non stop LAN party from back in 2008.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21455/) - I haven't read a lot of books with aspies as the main characters, but in the romance genre, I found a couple by Chloe Liese which are quite good. Always Only You and With You Forever. I know there are many more out there, but it's harder for me to find, since the main genres
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21328/) - I had a pleasant experience
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21324/) - great
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21254/) - Appreciated lill sis!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21236/) - Hi, Big Bro. For sure. I will keep you posted.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21230/) - Hi Wendin! How exciting. It seems to be quite an exhausting exam indeed. Just let us know how it all went. :) I am very curious!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21225/) - Don Tillman in the novel The Rosie Project (written Graeme Simsion). I believe Rosie Project is the first book of a series. I really liked the book.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21175/) - I've been to polyamory events, but I'm not exactly polyamorous
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/21109/) - Hello; I completely understand what has happened to you. To be honest, I have not been very successful on the dating scene either. This is something that I have been looking forward to since middle school. I would enjoy helping you with your challenges, even though I struggle a lot.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20483/) - Hi Melissa Loki is ace! In the Thor films the character is very charismatic. I am currently rereading Harry Potter. I had a break up 10 weeks ago and it is comforting to read it again. What do you think of the new Spider-Man films? I can’t remember which characters are dc and which marvel.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20473/) - Hi! My name's Melissa and I like Harry Potter and Marvel Movies. My favourite Marvel character is Loki. I like watch movies and series too.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20472/) - I just want friends. Life isn't worth living alone. A lady who can introduce me to a new life would be nice.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20164/) - exactly how i feel.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20163/) - I agree. I would always want to be friends first. if something develops, then great.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20161/) - I find video games relaxing too. I like gentle ones like Haven Park and Stardew Valley, though even Stardew valley has too much interaction for me so I usually just do my own thing. I also quite like watching other people play games, as I get stressed if they are hard if I play myself.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20160/) - I only found out i have Asperger's relatively recently and was in a relationship. Now i'm not and I think I would like to meet someone who also has Asperger's and i'm glad that there are sites like this.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20159/) - Hi, good topic. games - stardew valley, harvest moon, alba, Haven Park movies, 6th sense, truman show, eternal sunshine, harry potter, spiderman (with Michael Keaton)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20158/) - I would like to meet people who I feel a connection with, who aren't afraid to be vulnerable and who don't pretend to be something they aren't. I would like to feel seen and appreciated for who I am - shy, a homebody, nurturing and caring, and would like to be cared for and loved.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20157/) - yes, not being able or willing to see your own flaws is fascinating.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/20156/) - yes. my mum lied to me once and I have never forgotten it. And then a friend at university turned out to be a pathological liar. I can't really lie or understand why anyone would.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19953/) - I'm here because I want to meet other Aspies. But anyone really. I just want to branch out and see if there are people like me or just anyone I can be friends with. Especially if they live locally to hang out with.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19941/) - I have spent a lot of years pondering this exact thing before I was diagnosed. Most NTs are liars and manipulators and I don't know or understand why at all. This is just their accepted way to be for some reason. For relationships they pretend to have similar interests and beliefs until they think they
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19860/) - The main character in The Speed of Dark by Elizabeth Moon is autistic, though I don't think he's specifically Aspie.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19265/) - Thanks, I understand the concern - the plugin has a setting that allow you to configure how many Giphys to load at a maximum, so it shouldn't be too much of an issue on the client-side rendering. As for the server-side, if I'm not mistaken this is just a integration to add an img tag,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19264/) - Hi, Thanks for the suggestion. We try to keep the site as light and fast as possible while animated gifs will increase the server load significantly. So it would work with the site, but I believe it is not a good choice. The chat does allow for some copying and pasting. You could try to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/19235/) - I would love that! Great idea would be happy to exchange letters with you. Since I grew up in the 80s I’m all about the pen and paper 📝. I am new to the site and will gladly add you as a friend. Looking for a few. Victoria
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/18653/) - My name's Jonathan. I'm looking for an obsessive young woman between the ages of 18 and 40. I live in st. louis, Missouri. I know the automatic assumption is that an obsessive woman would be someone to take advantage of, but not for me. I also have ocd. cuddles hugs kisses and clinginess are central
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/16912/) - my ideal relationship would be with a as much of a copy of myself as possible but female . i may be a narcissist as well! :) realistically though, an insomniac gamer girl who loves edm.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/15780/) - I honestly do want a relationship but I have no idea how to express what I want. I have specific personality, physical, and even sexual traits I find attractive but I have no idea how to tell a potential girlfriend these things. But I also want her to be comfortable expressing what she's looking for
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/15778/) - Hello Aaron, my name is Josh and I started using this dating site about a month ago. My interests include: video games, meditation, movies, watching sports, traveling to new places, hanging out with friends and getting to meet other people.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/15744/) - I'm looking for my people. I've spent a lifetime overcompensating so I'm good at passing, but it's become exhausting. Just got diagnosed @ 54 which feels like a relief.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/15601/) - Plenty of people have that problem,it can be associated with depression.If you feel depressed ,it might be good to talk to a doctor about it.One of the best ways to overcome depression is through regular exercise and a healthy diet but in more severe cases medication might also be required.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/15297/) - Hi Bianca, My name is Josh. I have started using this online dating site on Monday. I am also interested in getting to know like-minded people. I am somewhat nervous about reaching out to many people across the country online. I know we may not live in the same state (or country) but I would
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/14950/) - Hi I'm Aaron and I'm new here. I'd like a girl who is very casual and laid back. Tomboyish girls, with jeans and sneakers, seem very attractive to me. Just someone who is accepting of my Autism and open to having new and different experiences. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/14871/) - I am looking for people that I may actually kind of like, with which I could form friendships and relationships.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/14848/) - Hi. Sorry, I never replied. I totally forgot about this. I'm looking for a friend, I guess. Someone I love spending time with. Is that you? Let me know, Sam.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/13533/) - I am looking for a person who I can spend time with, without feeling alone. I am new to the community but I feel like this might be a pretty ubiquitous experience here.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/13507/) - yes i am currently im looking for someone to accept me for who i am
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12791/) - Ditto Ewoud for the most part. Things definitely have to fall into line. I think it's more a matter of the starting point really... What hooks you? Mind? Body? ______? and then grow from there... Ultimately, yes - a romantic relationship is a threshold that takes one to the next level. So, I'm up for
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12790/) - Someone with unique interests and a solid knowledge of specifics... and can convey details in an enthusiastic way. Someone who is willing to push themselves just a bit to get out do things! Someone who appreciates a sense of humor (you'll have to if you get to know me!)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12789/) - I guess you could say that anyone who lies is doing it too much. Right? I have noticed that most (not all) NT's have this idea of "My Truth" (I think Oprah started that) where we are all supposed to take someones (perspective, opinion, explanation, accusation, etc.) as true... when much of the time it's
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12453/) - I find people of the normie spectrum lie to themselves too much, one example is they keep using Facebook after being repetitively proven violations of privacy/ data, Chinese inspired censorship, and overall psychological manipulation on a malicious level. But if you held a video camera to one of these normies in public, they would get
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12452/) - So uh.... You cant message someone else until you and that other person both bought premium membership?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/12056/) - I am looking for like-minded people to communicate with. Being sapiosexual and demisexual as well as an Aspie, make dating nearly non-existant, but I would like to date. I've been on other dating sites. I got tricked a few times, as I don't understand games being played. I wonder what this site is like. I'm
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11511/) - I agree and get angry when people want me to lie.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11510/) - I have experienced the same difficulties. I often can't tell when someone is lying in the moment. I have to process the conversation (or long continual conversation/relationship) after interactions occur. For me it's really offensive and has led me to where I am now: I don't understand NTs. If they can't live in truth, and
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11455/) - hey fam im new too, wonder how this place works
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11133/) - Yea sorry. She will pop up again in your list after she has logged in.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11132/) - This person is no longer showing up my friends list, and yet when I go to look at her friends list, I show up on it, and it says she wasn't recently active. This is very odd. https://www.aspie-singles.com/members/clover/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11131/) - That’s correct. I did a database update and suddenly the date was put 23 days ago. It will sort itself out over time when people log in again.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11130/) - It's the exact same thing with this person's profile. I know for a fact she gets on regularly, yet it shows she was last on 23 days ago. https://www.aspie-singles.com/members/anartista/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11129/) - It's now saying the last time she was on was 23 days ago, which I know for a fact is not correct. She just sent me a message a few days ago. https://www.aspie-singles.com/members/tea4two/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11122/) - Hi Bianca! It's a pleasure to meet you. :) It's ok to be nervous, but there's nothing to fear. Many of us struggle with social situations as well. Hope you find what you're looking for! As for me, I'm around if you ever wish to chat with someone. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11113/) - I agree, it is also very hard for me to lie too
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11110/) - on this point "I have always been very sensitive to lying. I know how to lie but prefer to find people that can handle the truth and because of my ASD I don’t emotionally react to things so I would people be truthful and just work through consequences. I have a hard enough tying to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11107/) - Hi? I think I resolved the problem. The user has to sign in again though for the time to reset to today. After that the friendship should come up again as well. Thanks for notifying me. I’ll check later if all is working as it supposed to. Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11105/) - Hi, that’s called unix time which starts at 1970. How it gets into profiles beats me. I’ll look into thatched weekend. Thanks for telling me. Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11104/) - Here is another person's profile who is showing as she was last on 51 years ago. I know for a fact she was on last night. https://www.aspie-singles.com/members/thepassionatelearner/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11102/) - Here's the profile of the person who sent me the friend request. There are a number of other people's profiles who are showing up as being last on 51 years ago, and some of them I know for a fact have been on in the last few days. The Internet wasn't even around 51 years
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11099/) - Hi, That is very strange. Can you send a link of the profile to: info@aspie-singles.com I would appreciate that. Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11098/) - Someone who accepts me for me - the tattooed Farm Girl! I am weird and quirky and love that about myself (finally). Someone who is like-minded, but also agrees to disagree respectfully if we don't have the same views. Someone who wants to share a close bond and friendship, who enjoys music (and plays music
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11063/) - Hi, Just take contact via the contact form and we will sort something out with you regardless the payment options. This is not the right place for sorting things out for you. https://www.aspie-singles.com/contact/ Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11062/) - Assuming that I do have a paypal, the checkout only asks for a card, tho'. I don't see an option for a Paypal.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11017/) - Hi, I am sorry for the inconvenience. Some banks don’t allow certain online payments. Do you have pay pal? You can also contact us via the contact form, then we will find some solution. Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11016/) - For me it would be my inability to see how my words affect other people. I grew up not knowing my own emotions, (alexithymia) so it is difficult to know how others feel. I think this is perceived as lacking empathy. If I find out I have hurt someone, I genuinely feel bad. I assume
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11012/) - Good people. Anything more is a bonus.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/11007/) - Thomas from Italy 23 years of age, I am not looking for much all I want is a friend who is kind and accepts me for my weaknesses.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10995/) - who are we on about may I ask
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10994/) - I wish you or I lived in each other’s countries. ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10993/) - I am looking for someone who likes science fiction, comics, anime/manga, video games, animals, taking walks, and music.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10967/) - I don't know if it the would is fucked mentality I have but I often laugh in inappropriate situations and get called a heartless basted all the time so does that me I have no empathy ore have I given up? I don't know.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10966/) - that is not wat i get from most people. i have been call every horrible name at some point in the la 24 mounths
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10956/) - you sound interesting but i hate clubbing and dancing due to too many people and noise for me to cope with and i am also dificlt fro people to get to know esechaly afer wat happened with my x gurilfrend i will let you deside if i am right for you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10955/) - Hi, I’m a straight Caucasian 26-yr-old woman with very mild Asperger’s. Not to be overly forward haha but I’m very submissive, so I’m looking for a guy who’s into BDSM. I’d also prefer that he had a high intelligence, particularly with math and music. I love going out dancing, clubs are cool too, and looking
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10945/) - Haven’t heard anything back yet but they are keeping an eye on covid so if I hear something and can talk about it I will report back
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10944/) - Oh, cool. The creators seemed like they had good intentions making the show so I hope you'll be in good hands. Good luck! You can give people an insider's view, if you want to, and if you're selected :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10834/) - I was aware of the blog post, I applied but haven't heard back yet so no idea
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10831/) - I really liked the show, particularly as the show creators seemed to be trying to make an interesting and thoughtful programme. I agree, though, that it would have been good to see the contrast in approaches to social situations between aspies and neurotypicals. I think Ewoud's blog had something about a US version being made,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10830/) - Hi... nice to meet you... I am from Italy... 45 years old... ethero... single... I have just done tonight my inscription here... I am looking for a dialogue with a sensitive and sweet woman... I would love to create pass to pass a partnership with a woman capable to understand and appreciate me... I have
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10828/) - No.However, I am making a small effort online.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10827/) - It’s fine it’s working now thank you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10824/) - hey don't worry about that misstep, it happens. that measure is in place to protect all users from spam, occasionally it goofs,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10820/) - Hi, I will send you a mail to find out what it is that went wrong. We’ll resolve it of course. Greetings, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10816/) - Before I joined this website, I was in a relationship with a woman for 2 years (who I planned on proposing to at the end of this year). I broke up with her after she cheated on me with my best friend. It was already hard enough for me to date where I live; but
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10809/) - I am looking for a Caucasian Woman who is thin to medium build, in her mid to late 20s, who is like-minded, loves music, movies, video games and is looking for her Prince Charming. Someone who wants a serious relationship and is American like myself.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10807/) - I have tried PoF, Zoosk, FarmersOnly and Tinder; among other sites. These sites aformentioned tend to cater to the kind of archetypical douche-bag PuA type people "You're Mother" warns you about. And most of the women on the sites if they aren't looking for douche-bags; it's the rich ol' geezers, the babysitter for her kids
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10802/) - Social media is very artificial,people are just not meant to use it for long,they are meant to be outside doing things and spending time with others in real life.While social media can be incredibly beneficial in moderation,in excess it's very unhealthy for mind and body.I tend to get obsessive about it and so for me
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10800/) - Hi, A plugin got deactivated but it's active again! Thanks!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10796/) - Hi Ewoud, Unfortunately, I believe it's still possible for people to message without having been accepted as a friend - I did this to two people when I first joined (sorry!) as I missed the bit on the side about sending a friend request first before messaging (those messages I sent from my phone where
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10788/) - I think social media isn't really set up to help us be our best selves, so it's understandable to make mistakes. I suppose if you know what your weaknesses or trigger points are then you can set up some sort of system - eg pause before responding to something - that allows you the time
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10787/) - Yes,I used to be on facebook a lot.So much, that it interfered with work.Also,I used to post really personal stuff on there ,much to the amusement and horror of my "friends". With online dating,I tend to shoot myself in the foot by revealing my flaws in my profile.:) I have a twitter account but never
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10786/) - "Fixing old cars is a great hobby and you must be very skilled to be able to do it. It’s not just one positive, there’s multiple skills involved" I agree 100 %. Besides, all people who I know having this as a hobby or a job are nice. I admit, that it's not that many,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10785/) - "I’d missed the rule about asking for a friend request, waiting for acceptance, and only then messaging people" Oh, I did not know that such a rule even existed. But I would not be offended if I get a message first. I think, you are right with the good intentions, as you yourself write here:
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10784/) - Hi Voice Nerd, I hope you are feeling better about things now. Please don't be harsh on yourself about 'offending' people. I find I do it all the time, even with the best of intentions. Most of the offence others take seems to come from my honesty, or from missing signals from them, etc, but
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10783/) - Hello, It's interesting we seem to have a lot of females on this thread talking about being missed, I've come across this a lot in my reading. I was 33 when diagnosed with ADHD but struggled with the meds, which brought out 'weird' traits from childhood and adolescence I'd since learned to suppress (I think
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10782/) - Hi I know Aspies who are like this. It's easy to fixate on the negatives but there are always positives. Fixing old cars is a great hobby and you must be very skilled to be able to do it. It's not just one positive, there's multiple skills involved, and even if it is just one
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10781/) - Hello, I think growing up the thing that both children and adults seemed to resent in me was my refusal to lie. It's not like I'm incapable (although as a child perhaps I was) but I just don't see it as healthy, or as necessary as neurotypicals seem to think it is. In my opinion,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10756/) - sure i can understand that i like a lot of down time to myself to de-stress but also to get on with my own areas of interest but also because i sleep more than normal people and because i am hypersensitive and Take in more info than most people so need more time to process
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10752/) - I’m looking to make friends with like minded people. I’m not ready for a relationship at the moment. Maybe I will be at some point in the future.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10733/) - I also recommend you read this blog about relationships https://www.happymatches.com/blog/dating-app-reviews/happymatches.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10724/) - I tried tinder and happy matches.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10723/) - I would love to be with someone with Asperger's/ASD. I want to comfort them whenever they need something to. Engage with them and stimulate and challenge them through their interests. Be their best friend and guide in life. Be something they always look forward to and be able to sleep peacefully at night knowing I'm
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10715/) - yup I over the years I tried alot some better that others. the first was Eharmony when I was 22 and all there was people 50+ back then online day was only for old people o the time have changed lol also the usual suspects Tinder which is more for meaningless sex though I did
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10687/) - I would like some to not ack like my friend ore lover to only figurative stab me in the back like the last 20 friend and 1 girl friend if I can even caller her that. I would also like someone that likes gaming are is not easily offended as I have been called as
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10685/) - i dont even get to the chating stage all i get is you are too wierd or you metal sta it too fuked for me
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10683/) - No joke my official ASD report say I lack empathy all I could do is laugh for a asd psychologist to write something so absurd is frankly insane and I was assessed back in 2015.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10678/) - yes, i have encountered some scammers myself. on autism date dot com. something called raven ivy . . . is sad to find out the person you aren't talking to isn't really talking to you for real . . . confusing!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10640/) - I'm mainly looking to make new friends that can relate to being like me in someways. I am not ready for a romantic relationship at this time, but later I maybe, and figure meeting new friends will help in my daily life, since I prefer to stay home alone or go places with my son
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10639/) - While lack of empathy is obviously very common in humans ,I doubt that the percentage of people lacking empathy is significantly different among different,large groups of people,each with common traits mostly unrelated to having empathy.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10627/) - “Everybody has a hungry heart”
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10589/) - I'm not far from Mary. I live in Lufkin.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10588/) - Dating site scams make millions of dollars each year for organised crime gangs and lone criminals.Fake profiles are extremely common on dating websites and this site is no exception.I have seen several profiles on here which are probably fake but won't go into specifics as I can't prove anything.As mentioned above ,when someone that you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10587/) - In my 30s, I did try OKcupid a couple of times; however, I didn't know how to start a conversation, and I never even had the courage to message anyone back then. I did try adultfriendfinder once when I was 29 (bad mistake, folks! I'm sorry!), only to find out the hard way that I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10582/) - Longview, tx here.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10569/) - Ive only seeked out romantic relationships myself. Mostly met girls at friends events like quiet house parties etc, never bars. I love finding out about someone because i get to know them and get a feel for what their into, so getting to hang out and chat is the way for me personally.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10555/) - I'll admit it. I am a hopeless romantic. I do long for a real relationship, but I am overly picky and cautious, which I know is a fault of mine. I never thought I could handle the social complexities of a relationship due to my Asperger's, until now. How can one actually know what one
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10546/) - There are not many progressive rock/related love songs, but a few come to mind right now. Of course, there are others and I know I am missing a lot; however, let me list a few from this genre. 10 CC - I'm Not In Love (actually, the singer is in love but is trying desperately
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10524/) - It was on planetearthsingles.com where someone suggested that I might be affected by Asperger's. She saw herself in the spectrum and had an official diagnosis. So, this could be a site, where understanding people could be found. However, it is not a dedicated aspie-site. So maybe just write in your description that you are looking
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10477/) - I tried match.com what must be close to 20 years ago now. It seemed to be peopled with individuals who were in a hurry to find out what was wrong with you so they could continue their search for Mr or Ms Perfect. It was icky. Also tried eharmony after that. I think they gave
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10466/) - I find this a problem too but I thought it was just me. I can't respect people who lie a lot, especially the ones who lie to themselves- who are they fooling?Seems odd they don't realise that down the line it won't help them. It's so nice to realise there are other people who feel
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10437/) - Voice Nerd said: and no one want to meet in person. How can you tell if you are attracted to someone without meeting them and seeing how they move or smell? What I really want to say in those boring chats is, “Let’s meet and I’ll see if you gross me out. If not, then
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10436/) - Hi all, It is so refreshing and I am happy to see that there actually are others who prefer real honesty over "small" or even any lies. If only there were more people like this registered and active on this site. Where else can I find people like that? Regards, sb10
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10431/) - I’ve tried them all out.. the thing I struggle with the most is that I get bored easily and legit everyone I’ve matched with is just so boring and lacks personality. Not only that but I’m more of an interactive talker so a lot of the time texting is part of the problem.. I just
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10418/) - someone that has autism too. so that we can both relate to each other. and a girl that would love to bike ride or play games with me. someone that understands that even though im shy at talking to new people. they can still understand me and love me like i want to love them.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10416/) - i did try tinder a few months ago. but i kept getting girls that liked me but i could not see them or interact with them. its so dumb. why does it have to cost money just to see girls that are interested or even to talk to them. now tonight i decided to try
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10361/) - I gave up a long time ago, too. Now I started to try again, but I don't know what to do. I set up my profile, and added some friends, but what's next? Is there a next, but no one has decided to do that next thing with me, because of things in my profile
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10351/) - Somebody who makes me feel loved. Somebody as loyal and as eccentric as I am, who really tries to understand me. Somebody who won't dismiss the things that are important to me and who doesn't try to make me feel terrible about myself. Somebody who wants to try new recipes together.... Even if it turns
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10348/) - I've tried a few. I really wish that there were an aspbergers dating site that isn't A) filled with fake accounts and catfishing B) a moneymaking scam
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10347/) - Just always trust your gut feeling! If someone lies then it means they have something to hide and when they have something to hide then they have a lot of other things to hide too. Honesty that you can trust should be the basis of any friendship or relationship.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10346/) - Yes, I had an intimate friendship with somebody for over a year who wasn't fully honest about a number of things (Name, age etc) but I overlooked the red flags, it really hurt me later down the line because I was straight with them about who I was and my motives. I prefer people to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10345/) - A couple of favourite songs to cuddle to: Ott - Queen of All Everything Younger Brother - Psychic Gibbon Carbon Based Lifeforms - Frog The XX - Angels Funkadelic - Maggot Brain Carbon Based Lifeforms - 20 Minutes These are the best ones I can think of off the bat. A lot of these songs
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10344/) - I haven't been for awhile, I deactivated all the other sites I was using and haven't really been putting myself out there much. I would like to meet somebody who is able to offer what I look for in a partner, I can relate to and have a great connection with though. I do want
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10343/) - I find Tinder overwhelming and too much to keep up with and feel like it tends to be geared more towards just hooking up which I'm starting to want to get to know people better before just doing things right off of the bat. I've noticed people on this site have more interesting bios and
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10341/) - Somebody who understands me and relates to me, makes me feel valued and who I can have a deep connection with as well as share inside jokes and banter with and who has a bold personality and similar interests to me. It would be great to find another foodie, somebody I can listen to good
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10334/) - Hi. New here. I can't find anyone in my state or near me for some reason. I'm mild aspbergers so
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10323/) - I am looking for people who get me. Not being very successful on the dating scene. (One girl told me recently that I had "lied" to her because I didn't tell her I have NLD/Aspergers before we went out. WTF?) Anyway, I thought I might make some new friends and maybe even meet a woman
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10240/) - Hi Aaron, I appreciate your post a lot. Perfect warning! Thanks! Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10239/) - We take 4 different measures to avoid scammers. It is hard to rule them out for 100% because some are terribly sneaky, but in most cases the scammers generate profiles automatically and that is not possible on our site! When ever you see a profile that smells "scammer", just report it and I'll deal wih
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10238/) - There's another website I'm on where scam profiles have become a major issue. There have been a number of profiles deleted off that website due to the profiles being scam profiles.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10212/) - Hi Andrew. I've put the distance filter up on the main search again. The thing is however that some people just don't show on it when they didn't allow location services on their computer or mobile so the "city" field in the modal (blue sidebar) search is more reliable in finding matches. I am also
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10193/) - I just found out on Friday that my psychiatrist told my mom when I was 10 or 11 that I had Asperger's. I didn't know that. I've been treated more for my ADHD, which has, at times, caused me significant issues in terms of my relationships.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10187/) - Right now, I'm not looking at dating. I'm here to make some new friends. Everyone could use more friends. It's unlikely I'll find someone on here to date, and I understand that. I haven't found anyone who lives close enough to me to date.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10164/) - I have not been formally diagnosed. I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of four, however. One of my teachers when I was in school recognized I had a form of what is now known as high functioning autism, and my psychiatrist agreed. I have not been getting treatment for what used to be
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10163/) - Hi, that’s a super valid question. It’s based on “country” “what gender you are looking for” “what kind of contact you are looking for” “aspie scale” and “aspie type”. Every match assigns a certain amount of points, making the percentages that you see. It is more a gimmick that can tell something about a compatibility
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10095/) - Before I realized my position on the spectrum, I tried so hard to have the "normal" relationship and just didn't understand the rules of relationships apparently. I'm finding it comforting to read some of these blogs. I'm learning new terminology like sapio and demi sexual! Thanks! I have always said it's more important to me
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10094/) - Kevin, I'm in the same position. Having to rethink my entire life and my perspective. It's daunting, challenging, sometimes helpful, but still scary. It is helpful that the more i read about others' lives, the more I find in common with my own.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/10070/) - Fla-Vor-Ice Freezer Pops
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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9897/) - Hi Kevin - I second Ewould's comment. There is nothing "wrong" with you even though it may feel that way some days. Sadly, it is not unusual to struggle with autism for years. I should know because I was fifty-seven when I finally figured it out. Now that you know what you are up against
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9807/) - Mania
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9641/) - Pyro 🔥 😂
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9640/) - Thank you Joshua for your great ideas. All feel very important to me. So I really appreciate your input. I’ve seen Aspie World. He indeed does a very good job. I first have to see if I can establish something myself but I am not against any kind of collaboration if it can help more
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9639/) - rho
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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9636/) - 420 😏 🌬🌲🔥👌
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9635/) - I suggest videos on -Dating tips -Public speaking -Overcoming social anxiety -Aceing a job interview -How to thrive in the workplace/ work culture Have you heard of Aspie World? He's a British Aspie Youtuber who covers a plethora of Aspie issues. You may want to collaborate with him
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9632/) - Hi Wendin! Those are very nice points! Thank you. I can talk about these points by experience. I have some coping strategies for the last one too but they only extend the exposure tolerance. There is however always a point where the situation gets too overwhelming. But lasting longer is already a big plus. I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9631/) - Good job, Douwe. It is a wonderful video. I am interested in knowing... How Aspies (who are over 30) deal with their social struggle in general. For example, if you can share some coping strategies or something you have learnt from others. How to survive and thrive in a foreign land when you are on
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9616/) - Hi Kevin... If you are on the spectrum then there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are just different and in your own league. Just be proud of who you are.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9610/) - Joint :D
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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9574/) - Hi :)
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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9543/) - Hi Cassidy! It's a pleasure to meet you. :) I was diagnosed at the age of 22, and am now 27.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9507/) - Hello AspieBoy! I am Monika Jacob from London, United Kingdom. I’m a web developer at dissertation proposal writing service living in London, UK. I am a fan of writing, travel, and food. I’m also interested in movies and education. I want to be your friend, I hope this message reach you well and we can
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9490/) - I figured it out, never mind.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9418/) - I decided to sign up hoping for interacting and new friendships. I’m kevin from San Diego ca. 31. Recently found out after all these years that I found out I may have something wrong with me. But hey I feel more understanding and happy about it. Let’s see how this thing goes..
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9413/) - Hi, I am very sorry for your trouble. I have gone into the payment system to find your case and can see that you have been trying three times.The error that I get to see is the same as yours. That your card was declinded, but with the additional information that it was because of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9379/) - Sincerely appriciate the feedback. I agree, it's an incredible deal and opportunity for those of us on the spectrum. To make an attempt to reach out, and pursue new social endeavors that could have a potentially profound, and positive influence on the lives of all who were courageous enough to take the plunge in joining
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9377/) - Hi, Thank you for your question. Maybe it should be clearer. I’ll fix that. For premium you only pay once and have it for always. So there aren’t recurring fees per month or year. It’s a very good deal compared with other dating sites. We also have a trial membership with a weekly recurrence of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9374/) - While I am interested in dating with people I can actually relate to, I don't actively seek out a romantic relationship. I am not really bothered about remaining single for the rest of my life because I will rather be happy by myself than being miserable with someone. However, I don't want to live with
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9370/) - Why I Couldn't Fully Appreciate Pokemon Silver Part 2 I liked Pokémon Red because it was convenient to play in my strict upbringing. My family is largely invested in education and my mom didn’t appreciate any amount of time I spent on playing video games. Some video games require time for the player to build
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9369/) - Why I Couldn’t Fully Appreciate Pokémon Silver I used to think that the generation II Pokémon games got too much hype. Sure, I liked how Cyndaquil, the starter I chose, evolved into the honey-badger inspired Typhlosion which has awesome speed and special attack. However, I thought that the game wasn’t designed well when you have
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9366/) - Why I Like Pokemon Red I am not sure what really got me into Pokemon. I think it was probably my amazement of Ash’s sacrifice for his friend Pikachu in the anime’s first episode from a DVD my mom’s college friends gave to me as a present. My interest in the franchise further grew after
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9364/) - All I know was that my mother tried to enroll me in a mainstream school in India, but was unable to do so because according to her they wanted to put me in a "mental asylum." Luckily I was able to enroll in a mainstream school in the U.S. but here people described me as
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9352/) - I am a misfit all my life. I haven't got a diagnosis yet. Because my health insurance plan can only cover a small fraction of the diagnosis expense. It is not a must for sure. If you can afford it, why not?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9299/) - Other than going to online sites, not really, because I don't really know how.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9295/) - I think one of the perks of asper to asper dating is the given assumption that both people will want a healthy amount of time to themselves.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9293/) - Unliveable, frozen little hick towns represent. Sorry to see you disappeared, whoever you were.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9292/) - I'm actively seeking right now and it's unnatural as all hell. I'd much rather coexist in the same sphere as other people, preferably online, and have sporadic interaction until a connection naturally develops. I've tried local dating apps and even been on a few dates and it all seems so forced. I can't tell from
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9285/) - Hi Ewoud, The site doesn't seem that asperger's friendly for me due to some of the wording when you're using the advanced local search. Even though I've read the instructions, it took me a while to understand and get used to it. Also navigating around the site on mobile doesn't seem very friendly. Was this
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9238/) - Working fine now! Thanks. Wish there was a way to get more traffic on here, and maybe some sort of matching feature unless there is one already? I only saw an option to add as friend.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9237/) - Hi, how is it now?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9236/) - I just registered here and I'm having this issue, the site is basically useless right now, can't member search? I was so hopeful to find people here, but if this is happening to everybody, does it mean no one is using this? The inactivity on the forum isn't too encouraging :(
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9235/) - Hey Anonymous, I would like to be your friend if you're still interested. It seems you have been inactive for awhile. When you get this, send me a message if you can.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9229/) - Can you send a link of the profile? Thanks! :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9226/) - that works also wondering if there is a way to get a profile looked at? i just got a friend request and something about the profile rubs me the wrong way, i can't put my finger on it, but the profile doesn't seem right to me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9139/) - Thank you for your message. I have been meddling with the search options and there were some things wrong with it after. I think I've fixed that and I also added an other search criteria that allows to search on sexual orientation. I think that will narrow down the searches better. There are some minor
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9137/) - Yes, I would like to recommend that the filters for member search are changed. At the moment, it is quite confusing because of the language that is used while selecting the filters. It says "I am" even though it is actually talking about the person you are looking for. These should be reversed so that
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9131/) - Thank you🙂👍
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9130/) - Hi, that was a mistake. You can send friendship requests now. I think you found a loop hole on the site. Do you mean you managed to send messages to everyone like that without a paying membership? Thanks for your help for pointing that out, I’ll update your profile to gold so that you can
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9129/) - Hi thank you but I cant send friend requests I have basic membership now.I send my messages from messages tab I enter the users name(sending messages requires it I know and I can send messages everyone by this way)I write message and send it.and I got error which I told.I got messages from a scammer
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9128/) - Hi, is this other person a friend? After a new attack of a scammer I thought of blocking all messages to non friends. So that the routine would be friends first and then messages after the request is accepted. This Is also to keep the women in mind. Most women get a lot of messages
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9124/) - I’ve added a new post in the forum about some new ideas. Maybe you can take a look and say what you think?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9121/) - Hi there, I’ve added a new feature that makes it only possible to send messages to friends. That will stop the scammers right in their tracks. It’s the best path to follow as well. Send a friend request to show your interest. If there is mutual interest then you can talk, and by removing the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9120/) - I love the title but the story is a bit different. Bots are being blocked. About 50 a day. But there is currently no way to block scammers from signing up manually and to send messages. That’s what they do while what I can do is block them. Usually I am pretty fast with that
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9119/) - Let me guess: someone giving you a mail address to talk and saying that "is busy at the moment"?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9117/) - Hi, thanks. It’s a problem that seems to come up after running some updates on the site. I’ll check next time after updating if the links are in order. The problem has been fixed again. :) Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9116/) - Hello, I seem to be having the same issue.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9112/) - Hi. Thank you for your suggestions. The fields got a little out of order without me noticing so I fixed that somewhat. I changed the orientation field to my orientation. Good suggestion. Thank you! Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9110/) - Thanks! Looks like it's all working now and I could even add a picture. Thank you 😊
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9104/) - Hi! Thank you. I’ll clear a buffer. Can you try again afterwards? Let’s fix this, Ewoud :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9103/) - I haven't had the chance to use the site beyond setting up a profile but I did want to point out some of the fields are a little confusing. For example, the "who is" field, am I to list my orientation or the orientation of the potential partner I am looking for? How about naming
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9078/) - Hi Alan, The usual response that I get is that people find it quite easy to sign up and to use the site. But I don’t know, maybe there is a demand for that? Maybe others can reply too if they feel it would be a good idea to have a flow chart. Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9077/) - I find the system very confusing. How about a simple guide for simple people? No need for nonsense like "Idiot's" etc. Easy for me to write but work for somebody else. Perhaps flowchart style.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9075/) - If anyone wants to chat even just ask for my email for women looking to relocate eventually for love and relationship thanks defo no guys 👍
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9007/) - Are you looking for this?: https://www.aspie-singles.com/membership-account/ It’s in the main menu. You ca. Cancel or change your account there. Regards, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9006/) - Hi, what’s your problem? There is a contact mail address on the site. I am very available to help.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9003/) - Hello. I am now seeking a girlfriend for the first time since 1999. My marriage is over but my wife (nt) and i currently still living together separately if that makes sense? We have 3 boys 10 and under. It's complicated. I was diagnosed recently aged 46 with ASD (aspergers). I joined this site as
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/9000/) - I don't actively seek out "romantic" relationships, but would love to have a friend/travel partner that turned into one! I'm totally monogamous and would only EVER date one person. I'm content in my life, but would be nice if I could add someone to it!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8999/) - Hi! I tend to be very passionate & intense about things, AND was married to a moderate Aspie for 23 years until his death. I'm 57, so I don't know how many Aspies are here in their late 40's to 50's.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8997/) - Leo, I think messaging only works when you have the paying account. yours, Glen
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8356/) - I am self-diagnosed, and like most women my age it came as a relieving ah-ha moment. I.e., so that's why . . . ad infinitum. You see, when I was young autism was a boy's disease, only boys. I was just a very odd girl. When I was a really little kid, of course I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8004/) - personally, i am not into hugs apart from when i am romantically involved with a partner. Then i love them. I always find hugging men very difficult, especially if the men hug me more than for a second. feels like their getting something sexual or perverse out it, like their getting an erection. Kind of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8003/) - think you (zero girl) shouldn't find it too hard to find a boy friend. Your certainly pretty enough. I am not tall enough, am into all music. not a hipster. Kind of just me really. one of a kind.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/8002/) - that's a shame Voice Nerd, as i think you come across as a really nice woman who also is very beautiful. I am sure you would make the right partner very happy. perhaps you could get some form of therapy to help with some of your challenges.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7994/) - I don't actually mention it. I just do me, and either they enjoy my presence or they do not. I try to tone down given my very nature, so i do not drive them away. That way I slowly let them in deeper into the "true" me. Some figure it out, but sadly most do
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7993/) - I want to watch "Spring" again. That was a very good movie. Different, but good. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spring_(2014_film) / Spring is a 2014 American romantic body horror film directed by Justin Benson and Aaron Moorhead and starring Lou Taylor Pucci and Nadia Hilker.[3].
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7992/) - Can we define "Romantic" here? I can think of quite a few songs that are not in the category of music above that would fit my idea of romantic, at least partially. Not in the traditional sense, sure but the idea is still there. Think "Stay" by Cradle of Filth, "Temptation" by Cradle of Filth
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7977/) - I don't get the Drop Down one but... Bounce
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7976/) - Drop down! ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7975/) - Ketchup
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7960/) - Dried tomato
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7959/) - Thanks for sharing, encouragement for others :)... I only just really realised I wasn't merely blunt but that girls can have asperger's recently and I'm 38!! Anyway I watched Tony Attwood speaking on Girls and Aspergers recently and recognised my entire life to a T right there. Was extremely liberating to realise hey I really
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7958/) - tapenade
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7788/) - I've tried other dating sites (Plenty of Fish, Zoosk), with not so great luck. The main problem I think has been communication skills, it's hard when people pick up that you struggle with small talk, or they have some preconceived notion that you aren't interesting. Liking what I see from this site so far, I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/7787/) - I'm in the later category I think, still seeking a diagnosis at the age of 27.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6572/) - Yeah, tinder is a Meat market, match was dead and POF has a high man to women ratio I've heard! Which resulted in being spammed with lots of messages. I'm about to give up I think!! Lots of lies and emotionally unavailable men has been my experience!!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6496/) - One of my roommates and I cuddled once when we were both drunk and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I never knew how good it feels to make physical contact with someone.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6425/) - Olives
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6418/) - I have no clue how to date. I'm a bit opposite about wanting to get to know someone first. For friends, yes, but I'm really sensitive about body smells, textures and other stuff like that, so dating is difficult as most men gross me out physically with their stubble and rough skin and sweaty body
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6415/) - I have a stuffed animal I hug. Poor worn out Elephant. Keeps me company, though. Doesn't get offended by anything I say. Great listener!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6412/) - What I find is NTs change their minds because they swing with their emotions. Especially NT females. They say something as if it is the full truth because that's how they feel at the moment without thinking it through before speaking. Then change their minds (or feelings) and say something contradictory a few days later.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6409/) - I am 58 and on POF and get lots of responses, mostly "you have a beautiful smile" but it's all small talk and no one want to meet in person. How can you tell if you are attracted to someone without meeting them and seeing how they move or smell? What I really want to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6407/) - It's all Greek to me!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6404/) - So glad to read this, even if some of it is from awhile ago. I have an appointment in two days to get a diagnosis. I'm 58. My dad was 88 when we got his diagnosis. Seems my coping skills have gotten worse as I get older, or perhaps I am just so very tired
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/6401/) - My father was diagnosed at age 88. He lived to be 92, finally "somewhat understood" in his later years. I miss him and his quirky funny ways.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5809/) - A new payment gateway has been installed. I hope it works. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5806/) - Thanks Ewoud, i hope you manage to find a solution Regards A.D.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5805/) - Thank you. I’ve contacted PayPal for looking into the issue, because I believe the problem lies there in my account. I’ve tried myself as well and got a decline of my credit card after the payment seemed to have come through. I’ll change your membership status so that you can use the site as a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5804/) - i'm paying with a card and it comes as a return after i submit my credit card information, i'm using paypal guest pay since there wasn't another option for payment.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5803/) - Thanks for your screenshot. Are you paying with card? And do you get this acreen straight away? Or does it come as a return after you submit your credit card information? Or are you paying straight through PayPal?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5802/) - hey there Ewoud, the error message says "this transaction could not be completed. Please redirect your customer to PayPal. as is seen here http://prntscr.com/m5hz6o
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5800/) - Hi, I am sorry to hear about your problem. Do you get any error notification? I would be helped with some lead to resolve the issue. I’ve disabled plugins that could be a potential culprit. If you can help me out until a successful payment, then I’ll refund you while you can keep the membership
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5798/) - Avicii - Addicted to You Tove Lo - Not On Drugs Divinyls - I Touch Myself Arctic Monkeys - Do I Wanna Know? Marina and the Diamonds - Power and Control Porcelain Black - Pretty Little Psycho Landon Austin - Armor Three Days Grace - Time of Dying Three Days Grace - I Hate Everything
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5796/) - Pheidippides
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5795/) - Now that ASD is seen as a more common and more research has been done on it diagnosing it has been done at an earlier, so while there are some adults who weren't diagnosed until the age of say 45, or 22, it is becoming less common to see someone diagnosed that late. Especially with
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5794/) - I agree! I wish I knew sooner, would have been nice to have help in school.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5792/) - That’s super young. ;) I was diagnosed at age 45, which is 4 years ago. Never too late. I think it’s easier when you’re diagnosed young. It avoids a lot of “why questions” like:why I can’t do small talk? Why can’t I multitask? Why do I suck at team work? Why I get things fixed
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5788/) - Hi If you go to a person's page, under their photo, there are buttons that say "private message" and "public message." Choose the first if you want to chat privately.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5784/) - I’m like you bronze just put my head down and work. However that’s also an issue I do warehouse work. The average warehouse I’ve worked at has around 2000 workers so it hard to stay under the radar esp. since people like to talk. I get what your saying people are just assholes it is
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5783/) - (This user is 6ft1in,and lives near NY, but has no basement)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5782/) - Nice to hear, I hope this site brings you what you are looking for. Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5781/) - I am new here and from what you guys talk about, I think this site is the best so I am hoping to make the best out of it. Guys feel free to message me, I am eager for my first date...Cheers
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5774/) - Howdy
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5733/) - I wish I lived there! One of your residents has the best state of the art lofts for racing Homing Pigeons that I have ever seen.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5732/) - I know that this is an old thread but just wanted to add my thoughts. I got my official diagnosis as an adult - that was about 10 years ago. It didn't solve any problems for me either, but it did give me a handle on things and helped me understand why I thought the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5730/) - Is there anyone on this dating site that lives in Melbourme Australia, everyone is either USA or uk.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5728/) - Hi there
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5722/) - ho
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5713/) - Cave dweller type ? I can get that.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5712/) - Why exactly a basement? What are you planning to do there? :D
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5710/) - i'm not but i like new jersey
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5678/) - it doesnt even work for thar either
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5676/) - Don't mine to connect and be friend am in New Jersey area.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5674/) - You certainly aren't the only one! I spend an amusingly alarming amount of time thinking 'I would trade away all my earthly possessions for a hug right now'; I usually end up trying to suppress the neediness a bit by drawing or reading shipfic and imagining myself in it.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5673/) - One of the perks of working in software on a team with some remote members is that a significant portion of the interaction is done via chat (where I have a little more time to think my responses through and don't become 'peopled out' as easily), and I think some of my teammates, as well
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5672/) - Marathoner
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5655/) - Exhausted
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5653/) - Home run
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5652/) - Sending hugs
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5651/) - Goodness me, talk about echoing all my problems with NTs lying. I know that this thread is more to do with dating, but I have a major problem atm with a close family member who tells dreadful lies about very important things and people.. PapaBear earlier said to be yourself or it will kill you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5650/) - Yeah, I'm tired of the lying too. I notice that a lot of people lie to themselves, as well. Not necessary. I would prefer that people stick to the facts. Trust and respect are very important to me.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5649/) - And here I thought that my mental blockade regarding lying was a quirk of mine. Nice to see that it is a trait shared.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5647/) - ruth : disassociation with entire family resolved own issues of aggressive , lying , untrustworthy , highly intelligent older sibling . whilst not perfect , is definitely easier on the head ...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5633/) - I've been on eHarmony 2 yrs now. Most times they send matches with nothing in common, I do not drink, not interested in spending days chasing balls on a golf course or getting sunburnt on a boat so most I just hit delete. The few that "may" share common interests I will click a smile
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5631/) - Goodness me, talk about echoing all my problems with NTs lying. I know that this thread is more to do with dating, but I have a major problem atm with a close family member who tells dreadful lies about very important things and people.. PapaBear earlier said to be yourself or it will kill you
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5626/) - Hugs for everybody! Eat beggie, change energy.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5625/) - *Hugs*
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5623/) - Why is the most popular online dating app Tinder, I hear, contained with fake and catfish profiles? Like, how can somebody meet a real, honest person on Tinder? Is OK Cupid any better? If Tinder wants to market itself in the fashion of being the most popular dating service, they should be the most loyal
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5622/) - I need a hug
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5621/) - Hey man, i can understand and feel your feelings. I am also alone and i have already crossed my 33 years of my life and now i really need someone who love me, treat me like i am all her completely. I am also seeking some tips which can really help me in finding a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5541/) - Sure I'll check it out. Btw what kind of math are you interested in?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5540/) - Hey, I am very socially awkward, and also love numbers! Have you heard of numberphile on youtube? I highly recommend checking them out if you haven't!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5537/) - Take it easy. Flow.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5536/) - Hugs are good.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5535/) - Thanks for the understanding and! Big thumbs up to you. *air hugs* (if that’s ok with you)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5534/) - I feel your pain.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5528/) - aspie/NT relationships can be done. the two need to know what they're getting into and be willing to put in the work.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5527/) - My girlfriend is NT and we learn a lot from each other. I think that overall it’s easier for an aspie to communicate with an aspie, but there are always exceptions. What’s most important is that there is enough love and care for each other and we have plenty of that despite the hurdles. At
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5526/) - in the long term an NT and an aspie's social tendencies may ware on each other. the NT may become discontent from the emotional distance of an aspie while an aspie may find the NTs desire for consistent closeness to be uncomfortable and an invasion of their space. it's not an impossible pairing but it's
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5524/) - You have a good point Well depending on what kind of person she or he is Eventually someday you can meet ;) At least that's what I can say is a part of my personality
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5519/) - nah, not really as I don't see the value in any of them.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5512/) - Hello
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5510/) - hi i would like make friend with you , would you mind ?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5509/) - Hi. I just sent you a pm. Did you get it?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5505/) - Hi... I am interested
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5504/) - Hello. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5502/) - Hi Anna, I'm also not sure how to message people. Maybe only friends can do that? Anyway, I am also looking to chat to people around the world too! I'm from the UK.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5500/) - I had a bad experience on aspergersdatingsite.com earlier today, which led me to search elsewhere. I found this site through Reddit.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5499/) - Yes I am here! I am very hopeful that the site will grow and that there is any activity here.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5498/) - Hi Mickey, The site is growing slowly and the revenue is invested in advertisement to push up the numbers. About 1/3 of the members are on-site once a couple of months, some daily, some come once a year and some only signed up to never log in again. So growth is the solution and it’s
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5497/) - Seems to be decent amount of people on this site just not active enough and could anyone tell me how to donate I can't find it
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5443/) - oh and here is yet another problem with dating sites. The women are often hundreds of miles away. I just got a friend request from some one.Excited, I accepted. Then I find out she is in.. Afgahnistan!! Good grief. Like I could ever meet someone on the other side of the world!!!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5442/) - Ive tried other dating sites. I've gotten no where regardless of site. Match Plenty of Fish ZOOSK. I think the whole personal ad thing is designed to fail and make you continually come back for more.. giving ever more money to the dating site. A big part of the problem is that Women get far
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5439/) - Hi, that depends to your browser. Just google it. ;) That will probably also solve the security messages.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5438/) - Good morning. How do I purge or refresh the browser cache? I also noticed sometimes it says "Not secure" on the top next to the link site.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5436/) - I am just thinking. It might be that you need to purge your browser cache. It’s possible that the old links are still in your cache. They are different now and will be right when refreshed.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5435/) - Will do notify you if I get "an error message" or "page not found."
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5434/) - Hi, Everything should work fine. Can you notify me by mail when you get an error message? If you get them then I need to find out what is going on and resolve it if it’s a “thing” ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5433/) - Hello. Am I able to still send private or inbox messages to my friends?? Just want to make sure and sometimes I get "404 page not found" link.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5430/) - Hi I just joined. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5428/) - Hi, Checked it out they are working now. Thanks for answering me so quick.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5427/) - Hi, sorry for that. Aspie-singles just moves to a secure server. I didn’t check the links but believe that the problem has been resolved now. Can you check and see if you still have the same problem? Thanks, Ewoud
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5416/) - We're pretty much in the same boat man
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5410/) - The pickings are slim bro. Over here in the USA as well.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5408/) - Hi, Those are most likely from members that removed their profile or who got removed for spamming.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5405/) - yeah but now that i finish school i havent seen her ever since high school but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & was talking
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5403/) - Hey that same thing happened to me too.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5397/) - Just talk to her if she have interesst to know you better
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5396/) - I've tried POF and meetme. Very little luck over the years. Hopefully that changes with a site consisting of people like myself.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5395/) - Holy sh*t this is depressing.. I'm gonna keep trying had awful dates with awful people but will not give up
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5385/) - This is my first Aspergersite. I am on diffrent normal dating sites but everywhere is kind of just pay and a lot of fake profiles. I am Emilian Mihali and new to this site. Kind of heavy to get an upgrade i don´t have paypal and i rather prefer netbanking.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5384/) - I like Aerosmith - Dont wanna miss a thing Taylor swift - LoveStory red house painters - song for a blue guitar goo goo dolls - iris sarah mclachlan - in the arms of an angel bee gees - how deep is your love joni mitchell - a case of you bob dylan - make
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5383/) - Honey and the Bee by Owl City
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5382/) - My favorite holiday right now is still Halloween. I don’t care how old I am, I will never pass up the opportunity to have an excuse to sit around in a costume and gorge on candy. Of course, I don’t go door to door for it anymore. 😆 But that’s fine by me since I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5381/) - First
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5379/) - swing ... and a miss
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5368/) - Hi Steven, That’s actually a concern that became bigger as the site grew more than I expected it would and so has HTTPS already a place on the to do list. The logins won’t be intercepted on host-side by the way. The site is optimally secure and I am notified of any changed file on
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5367/) - Hi, when are you going to be implementing HTTPS as the site is currently not secure and login details could be hacked if they are intercepted at the time of login.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5349/) - Yeah, I agree with @Ewoud. I think national parks, peaceful beach towns and nature reserves would make for great places to unwind. I think that cities also could work for you, especially if they have facilities that cater to your interests and fascinations (museums, universities, cinemas, art galleries and places of intrigue). Hope that helps;
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5348/) - Batter
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5347/) - cake
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5346/) - Same here. I went to buy some flowers downtown and it was pretty difficult. So many folks and very little sidewalk. But I managed to do it and I felt rather proud. I think that if you want to partake in something then you can simply modify things to not be so uncomfortable. For example,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5344/) - Only if I can’t avoid it. ;) 2 nov sounds heavy stuff. I think I would try to become invisible, which seems pretty in tune with the theme. ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5343/) - I don’t know of specific places but must of us choose nature (and little culture if possible) over big cities and amusement parks.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5340/) - Hi, just checking: do you mean a gathering specifically of Aspies, or somewhere to go on holiday that you think would be Aspie-friendly?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5338/) - Careless Whisper - George Michael You Belong To Me - Michael McDonald My First, My Last, My Everything - Barry White Lately - Stevie Wonder That's just off the top of my head. Hope it helps.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5336/) - Hi Carlos, I must admit you are coming on a little too strong. From personal experience, it makes people more comfortable when you try to become friends first and then have that friendship transform into a romantic connection. I learned that the hard way. Take it from someone who is also very direct: gradual and
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5335/) - Steamed Powerd Giraffe: Honey Bee and also I will rust with you. Aleksander Rybak: OOO AAA George Harrison: Blow away I think of my potato man when I listen to them.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5334/) - I mainly went to places to find someone to talk to and to eventually make a friend. I went on Hi5, Badoo, and Twoo. There, men jump at women like dogs in heat. I received so many dick pics. I also tried the chatting system in the online games I play including Minecraft servers. I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5333/) - Hey Riverr that is a nice and encouraging comment for everyone looking for friendship
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5332/) - My goal was always friendship. I read a lot of articles, book sections, and even watched lots of videos related to human behaviour. Stand up comedians taught me a lot about what are the strange rules and behaviour patterns on NT people. I just learned to mimic. Making friends is still difficult with NT people
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5331/) - Well, I joined yesterday and I have started messaging a hello to others. I would say hello to you personally in your page but I doubt your name is anonymous. So, I am a friendly potato. Hi.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5330/) - Hi 6strings, Well, I have no advice. I have no suggestions. What I have done in my life has forced me to communicate with others and keep my anxiety problems in check without medication. But anyway, something that helped me improve my communication skills and talk to other humans was the job I still have.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5326/) - Yes, I live in northwest Florida.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5325/) - I understand where you are coming from. I've always had that feeling of being imprisoned inside myself, though I was not diagnosed until 2013. I'm trying to emerge from depression too. I had MTHFR mutations that were impairing my metabolization of folic acid and production of neurotransmitters. I take methyfolate now. I've tried to convince
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5312/) - Welcome Essie, I recently discovered I have Asperger's as well. It was a difficult journey for me as well since my former doctors were treating for everything but Asperger's. But at least I know now and my life makes much more sense. Most people have never even heard of Asperger's. I myself have never heard
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5310/) - Hello I just found out a while ago that I am asperger. It hasnt been easy before and now I am looking for orientation and the light to follow. Greetings
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5309/) - 1980s romantic songs Foreigner - "Waiting for a Girl Like You" Kate Bush - "Wow'' Squeeze - "Tempted" REO Speedwagon - "Keep On Loving You'' Cutting Crew - "(I Just) Died in Your Arms" Roxy Music - "More Than This" Toto - "Africa" Mr. Mister - "Broken Wings" Night Ranger - "Sister Christian" Luther Vandross
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5302/) - A Little about myself.... Hello, My Name is Spencer. I am from New Jersey, but, I also spend my time abroad in the Cayman islands. I am an independent screenwriter (of Both TV & Features). Currently, I am a student, working towards a paralegal certificate. Through my Paralegal certification, I hope to forward myself towards
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5300/) - No luck with OKcupid or POF. All the women want guys who are financially successful, goal and career oriented, etc. Very hard for an aspie on disability to measure up to all that. Also I'm bisexual, so I get categorically dismissed. Maybe my profile just sucks.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5296/) - Fantastic post Robert. And I totally agree. I actually believe we are more sane. More in the moment, able to really enjoy things and not even being able to to react from all that ego crap but rather reacting on it by honesty. If people go hurt or shocked or what not. It's always their
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5295/) - Sorry to necro a thread. The thing I find most hillareous about NTs lying and such is twofold, first as you all have mentioned they do it costantly, second they have all these facial ticks and hand wavings etc they do to try and distract each other as they do it. I spend a long
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- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5291/) - My new blog sites http://hotties.pictures.erolove.in/?entry.marisa pain under sternum and upper arm 2 guys 1 horse dead dazz band let it whip i kissed a girl tab ru porn and sex
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5288/) - Sensory overload is real and many aspies have different triggers. It would be a good idea to self identify on these types of issues before dates, because it can be a deal breaker for many people. I am sensitive to sirens, bright lights, crowded rooms, high pitched noises (even voices), and my energy level only
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5287/) - Thank you for such great conversation. I think aspie women are lied to quite a bit and should definitely benefit from the "truth" on this site from aspie men. Aspie males and females can help each other out quite a bit with dating and befriending NTs. I am looking forward to reading more threads. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5285/) - I am interested in talking about how you get along with others at work for starters. As I find my workmates often rude and ignorant, I have given up trying to be in their social group. I am higher up on the aspie scale, but have been caught multiple times with aspie behaviors, which I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5278/) - Hi, I can empathise. I find it way easier to enjoy myself with my projects and interests than with other people, but still other people are important to me. What helped me loads is to learn over the years not to be too bothered about not being able to small-talk. The thing is. We like
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5277/) - Thanks for your reply. I always find myself deeply immersed in my hobbies - more like obsessed. I think that is a common trait among people with Aspergers. But it seems like a human instinct to be social. And so yields my feelings of loneliness. I had many friends which I met in college, but,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5242/) - I don't have any advice for you, really. I usually simply distract myself by delving into the subjects I like to study in math. However, that doesn't work forever because eventually you do realize that you're alone and have been alone for years. Perhaps you can make friends on this site. I personally haven't. I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5193/) - Is there anybody on this site ?? I'm new not sure how to work this site
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5162/) - I find it hard to get a diagnosis. Insurance doesn't cover it and it's not recognized in adults. I finally found a Dr who is willing to get me started with it. He needs to solve my thyroid problem first, so he can separate the issues. Even though, all of this has gone on all
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/5088/) - Whilst I am not strictly an aspie (my diagnosis was a higher-functioning form of autism), those whom know me consider me to be a polite and courteous individual. If anyone is interested in speaking to me, please do not hesitate to send me a message.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4989/) - Hello. We can ponder the mysteries of our environmental factors. Do you like science and cartoons? We could talk about giant stars, planets, supergiant stars, black holes, the space-time continuum, and other things. We can talk about games and cartoons. Like ed edd n eddy, courage the cowardly dog, fairly odd parents, my life as
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4701/) - I apparently created an accounr here long ago, but it was dead then so i forgot about it. :(
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4485/) - Everyone lies at some point, just the type of people in question lie a whole lot.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4484/) - There is girls here dude. Just gotta put yourself out there and let them come to you if they wanna talk. Thats the way I see it anyway.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4475/) - i'm a young man but i am looking for friendship. there is no girls here :/
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4139/) - guess I'm bumping this up, but... Lying, modified truth or a expectation that everybody understand it's not entirely true, is one of the things I allways have had problems with... And trying to make myself understand is a mental strain of huge proportions... I can do it, for a while, but it taxes me so
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/4138/) - Hi yourself, I'm new here as well... I have just recently been diagnosed, I'm 38 turning 39... I don't cherish the fact that I have a diagnosis, but it have helped me to understand a lot of my previous years... It explains alot. Having a diagnosis doesn't solve anything( for me, that is...), but it
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3973/) - Hi David, and welcome! There are definitely some nice girls here, as I've discovered, so you are bound to find someone. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3968/) - Hi David – Welcome to the site! Sounds like we’re in the same boat, but I think you’ll be able to connect here very well. Nice people here. Wish you all the best.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3967/) - Hi my name is David. I am a kind thoughtful as pie man who has been looking for a place to meet woman and simply people more like me. I really enjoy talking on the phone and making friends.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3966/) - Recently joined. Looking for a nice girl who is more like me to chat with. I am from Tennessee but now live in North Dakota. It is hard to find girls who are on the spectrum, I am looking forward to meeting someone.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3838/) - I am here and willing to chat
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3816/) - hi windrunner. I'm not a thoughtful aspie man, but I'm looking for the same thing. actually I'm eager to chat with ANYONE who is thoughtful, who thinks deeply about things. am so tired of superficial yak-yak.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3815/) - I'm brand new to this site and to aspie singles places in general. I've only signed on to two, and of course I'm also wondering if anyone is out there. most of the people on the two sites seem to be young, and I am not. I'm not just looking for a potential partner, but
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3806/) - Hey Nomad, yeah, let's work this site a bit. :) I'm sure there is a ton of friendly faces here. Maybe just need some encouragement.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3805/) - Thanks chgoson, you too! Got to agree Nomad, so much better than the others is this site. I think its traffic will pick up definitely, let's hope so! :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3804/) - Haha and Im almost between the both of you! (U.K.) I for one will be returning to this site, seems so much better than the other sites ive been to! Hopefully the sites traffic will pick up in future!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3803/) - Good to get your reply. I've got high hopes for this site... meeting genuine people is what I am looking for. Making a few friends now and looking to make some more. Hope you're looking forward to a good week. We're pretty far on the opposite parts of the globe. Have a good evening.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3800/) - I dont know anyone else with AS personally :( but i have bookmarked this site and I will do my best to return as much as possible! Thanks to admin for keeping this site going, really is a cool site! Thanks admin!!! :D
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3798/) - Thanks very much. I'm sorry that you're experiencing the same thing I am, I know, it sucks very much. But, this site is pretty cool. Met some pretty nice girls already :) and haven't even been on here very long. Some genuinely nice girls on here, very different from the staple online dating stuff on
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3784/) - Hi Adrian ~ Am new here....joined not all that long ago. Sorry you're feeling alone. I know how that can get. If you want to chat any time, I'll keep up the best I can. Wishing you luck in your search for a gal. I'm somewhat in the same boat. Hard to meet up with
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3658/) - In my case, I still dream of such a relationship like the couple the movie was based on had; Jerry Newport and Mary Louise Meinel, and what it resulted in; marriage. It's not easy when a legal guardianship is held over your head by your senior parents that the Harris County court issued to them
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3656/) - I've gone to Meetup support groups and those haven't turned out well. Too many arguments with other spectrum folk.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3459/) - Hello.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3091/) - Hey there! :-)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3089/) - Hey, I'm here!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3055/) - G'day mate, thanks for your reply! I have noticed a steady increase in members over the last couple of days which is pretty good. Hopefully the returners come back soon, though lol... Have a nice day.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/3051/) - Hi. The site is not booming yet but but it's growing. The traffic is low nut most members are returners, only not daily. ;) You know how we tend to go through periods right? ;) Just give this site some time and feel free to promote it anywhere. :) Greetings the Admin :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2147/) - grndr is even worse no fats no femmes no blacks no asians its a "meat market" as we used to say in the 90s
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2146/) - i have the loud shot gun laugh like radha mitchel and apparently the weird monotone of the josh harnett character why did i watch this with other people?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2072/) - It's great that you tried out tinder, I just heard so many bad stories about it, that I didn't event want to try it...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2071/) - Okcupid is the best (and free) for aspies, more geeky people on there...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2070/) - It's for "hooking up" ... "f buddies" "friends with benefits" ... it is not a DATING site....
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2069/) - at least i tried
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2068/) - Tinder is the WORST place for an aspie to be
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2067/) - If you want, you can private message me links to your dating profiles and I can critique them for you...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2066/) - Join geeky meetups... lots of geeky girls join those and that's where the aspie girls are hiding... or the NT girls who would date an aspie guy...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2065/) - I think people find dating partners when they are just out living life, the meetups help to make more friends with common intetests...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2064/) - So join a photography meetup.... and just go to events, not expecting to meet cute girls, just go for social practice...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2062/) - tried meetup, but my interests are a little odd, and not covered under most of what they have there another thing I like to do, is train photography
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2061/) - disneyland, electronics diy kits and some video games, though not many, Euro Truck simulator is my current game of choice at the moment, but I like going out for food, sushi is always good, chinese
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2060/) - Have you tried www.meetup.com Its NOT a dating site
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2059/) - What are your interests that you want to share with others?
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2058/) - I think I am addicted.... already... so much easier... I am on a phone so it's hard to type and edit on it
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2056/) - ive done that, makes writing a lot easier when I transcribe it with microphone to text on top of that, I almost got scammed recently and its made me deathly afraid of online dating, kinda why I haven't been on in a while
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2054/) - I totally just used the microphone to text... and was going to edit, but it went through... I am dying over here with laughter on what just came out... it had so much more but it got cut off...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/2053/) - Is your profile online similar to your profile here? It's ok, but if you put some activities that you like that you want to share with a date that would be helpful... do you like to go eat out? do you like to go to the movies? Do you want to go roller-skating? get a
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1870/) - i have tried just about all of them and am currently on tinder, but not getting much if any traction there, kinda frustrating and disheartening. Am about ready to give up on dating and suffer in silence
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1847/) - Hi! That's a really good suggestion! I will look into the notification system! :) Thanks!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1846/) - Good morning, I came from reddit and I think this site is a really cool idea, One suggestion I would make is in the email notifications is it possible to get them to be a little more specific, I got an email last night that someone replied to one of my updates and I had
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1842/) - Hi! I see the problem! I get the same. Right now I only have access from my mobile because my computer is dead but I will look into it on Tuesday from work and try to fix it. Thanks for pointing this out!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1840/) - It seems to be some kind of glitch :( It tells me there are so many matches then underneath says there are no matches. It did just show a page of profiles after another attempt, but as soon as I clicked for the next page it once again told me there weren't any. I might
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1838/) - Hi! If you fill out zero parameters and you hit "search" ten you should get all available profiles. The more restrictive you are with your parameters the fewer people you will find. The site isn't that crowded yet so it might take some time before you will find a lot of people from your local
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1835/) - Hi I am a new member and I've managed to set my profile up with reasonable ease (kudos to you for that), but I seem to be having problems using the member search feature. It is probably something I've done, but even when I leave the search parameters empty or just fill one in, I'm
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1805/) - Lies yeah, i did as a kid, i had to.. liars I can spot a mile off.. there are so many bullshitters
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1797/) - Hi, in your case you go to this url: http://www.aspie-singles.com/members/aspiegirl/profile/edit/group/1/ It's in your profile and then under the tab "profile" :) Good luck!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1794/) - true. same. totally agree. most NT people I know, lie so much... to me... to themselves.. to the world... I am tired of all the lying. No more lying. Just be honest and true and real.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1792/) - sooo. I just recently started telling new friends that I am an aspie. I have been becoming more authentic and real to my self... I was hiding who I was for way too long. I have been making lots of new friends and discovering that the people I am drawn to (geeky, creative, artistic, theatrical,
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1791/) - ohhhh. Did you mean, NOW, on here, this site? mmmmm.... not at this time. I am here for friendship... I was searching for a picture I found funny online, typed in "aspie" and then stopped and "aspie dating" popped up and here I am. I was curious. So I decided to join this aspie singles
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1790/) - I used to seek out relationships. Then I was, well it felt like I was steamrolled, by people I dated... then I went on dating breaks that last years... (seriously) and occasionally came out of hibernation when I met someone that surprised me, and those times ended badly, and here I am single. My heart
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1788/) - I have tried so many dating sites: okcupid, pof, match, eharmony, veggiedate, yahoo personals, even tried to connect with people through myspace, livejournal and craigslist. At the time I did not realize I am aspie, so was probably too eager or too nice. I don't think I will ever actively try to meet another person
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1734/) - staring at the problem so hard we ignore the solution
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1711/) - I think that the best mind is an open mind. As soon as you are very goal oriented then it's likely that you'll stare blind at the goal. Kust seeing what happens might be the better attitude.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1710/) - This site is growing slowly but steadily with real users! That's an important thing. Most dating sites are filled with fake users and cost a pack if you want to send a message. Here all is free...
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1532/) - still haven't read good omens or sandman I'll get round to gaiman eventually
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1529/) - done some courses myself on that subject ill have to make my own kick starter when the pencilling is ready im a slow and terrible drawer and cant afford an artist or inker a labour of love indeed
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1522/) - Neil Gaiman Phillip K Dick Clive Barker Isaac Asimov My exposure to graphic novels is lesser. I took some courses on the graphic novel at university but haven't had the money to get into it for pleasure
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1519/) - really dont know how
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1518/) - stress is where we seem to live
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1517/) - what science fiction writers do you like? im into david weber /honor Harrington stuff as for comics IM huge morrison fan love RIP
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1516/) - aspie affection glitched broken and always empty spectrum singles says its free but wants money to let you do anything at all on the site so this is the 3rd time the charm
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1256/) - I understand. Still you could see if she is interested in meeting you again in a quiet setting of her choosing. Sensory overload can be very momentarily and you did have a good time before ending up at the restaurant. I still would drop her one line, telling that you wouldn't mind a retry. Chances
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1225/) - Yeah see only one of those three things happened with my last date, we had one phone call before meeting and to be honest I actually don't think I was the problem. Cause the woman I was dating was an aspie too and I took her to a very loud environment. Like before the date
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1223/) - Hi dcjrkns, A little heads up or you... It's all about experience and I like it a lot that it didn't discourage you! A real thumbs up for that!!! The only way to get there is by getting out there. I will tell you my tricks and those are very simple. #1 You keep on
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1219/) - Also I am not 6 ft, I don't know why it says that on my profile, I am closer to 5.5 or 5.6, I am not that tall. Edit - FIXED
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1217/) - Hey Amy there is age gap between us but if you just want to chat and be online friends, I am cool with that. I don't put a lot of faith in online dating but I have very poor social skills and would like to meet new people to remedy this issue. I am 25
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1213/) - Hi, I did a search for you... If you follow this link then you get a fairly good indication of the members more or less close to you... It is growing every day so, just keep checking in :) http://www.aspie-singles.com/members/?field_849=&field_692=&field_692_to=&field_534=&field_1060=&field_633=&field_699=&field_654=&field_658=&bs=+&field_address=Nashville%2C+TN%2C+United+States&field_radius=500&orderby=distance
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1210/) - I am in the knoxville TN area. I have family in Nashville.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1120/) - Location and proximity search has been implemented. Now people only need to pin their location in their profile ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1105/) - I do my best :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1102/) - Sounds promising! Thanks again for all of your hard work!
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1100/) - I am using wordpress. There is no standard profile fields solution to it. I had to pump all the countries in the database myself... But... There are options... I'll tell you about something I've put in motion just now. A google plugin in which you can set your location by IP or GPS and/or which
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1099/) - Standard state selection is a bit of a pain because I would basically have to mak forms for all provinces in the whole world. It is, but it has been done before... and by that I mean that you really shouldn't *have* to redo it all yourself. I'm assuming you're not coding from scratch (the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1098/) - Hi and thanks for your message and appreciation... :) Haha... You are totally right. I am from a small country and didn't think about that. I've added it to the search function. I would advice you to change your state from TX to Texas...There is only one other member there, at last one that wrote
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1097/) - Hi Ewoud, Firstly, I'd like to express my appreciation for your efforts. I look forward to watching how this site grows. I've only been using the site for an hour or so and aside from some general weirdness with how Chrome on iOS handles forms, my only problem has been with the granularity of the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1096/) - Hi Phoenix. Welcome to start with. :) In your profile you scroll down a bit until you see "activity", "Profile" "Notifications" and so on... there you select "profile". then you get to a new screen with "view" "edit" "profile pictures"... You press edit there. Then all the profile fields should come up for you to
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1094/) - I can't seem to edit my profile, apart from the image. I don't want to search only among people of one particular orientation, but "Straight" is what's selected at the moment. I also have a typo I'd like to correct, but that's less important. EDIT: Sorry, nevermind. I just saw the post above and used
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1085/) - I've tried Tinder before, it's told me that someone has liked me twice or three times, but would never go on and tell me who exactly that person was :P
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1084/) - That sounds very recognizable. I have the same due to my demi/sapio inclination. I don't fall for bodies. I fall for personalities. Someone smart and sensitive can be super attractive to me. While someone that is considered generally attractive is totally uninteresting for me. I like the esthetics of a nice body of course (see
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1081/) - I tried Tinder for like 2 weeks. There were 2 guys who weren't trying to come off like a douchey-macho guy who I had a short conversation with, but from the one guy I just had to drag everything out of him instead of him just trying to have a natural conversation... and by the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1080/) - I don't think there's an objectively 'right time' to say it quantifiable by numbers of messages or anything like that. When I click with someone I can assume that's a person who isn't judgmental and is open to listen to me explain it and probably has some traits themselves. So I just say it whenever
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1079/) - I tend to drop it unintroduced because I don't see how that mentoning something like that wouldn't be random. It is like saying... by the way. I miss a foot. Most conversations dont deal about having feet so there wouldn't be a lead towards such a thing either. But I say a lot of random
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1078/) - That's true, but I was also wondering, when in a conversation (like between 50-100 messages), what would be the right way to bring it up? I'd like to mention it after maybe a week or so but don't want to bring it up in a way that seems sudden or random
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1077/) - Hi, I think that differs. I think that having it in an OKC profile will make a lot of people go "move on... problematic..." because they have no clue what it actually is. You may be neon-signing yourself with a category while you are an unique human being. You can also name some of the
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1075/) - It is stressful and not a very good base for a relationship if you have to pull your reins all the time with your directness. It is very local yes. I am from the Netherlands originally and then from the Northern part where people are pretty direct by nature. But here in Norway where I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1074/) - Oh, and I am currently having a very interesting conversation that already lasts 2 weeks with someone from Tinder out of all places. ;)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1073/) - I am on OKC which is pretty good to my standards but I seem to have the same as you with people there.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1071/) - Maybe that's why I've had much trouble although I have a lot more trouble where I live than I have than some other places. It's like girls here never seem attracted to me and whilst I would love to be direct to them, they are often so unapproachable and make me feel uncomfortable. People are
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1063/) - My golden tip is...Use your (probably) aspie-directness and (possibly suppressed because that happens) honesty to tell things like how easy and good the connection feels if it feels good. Use compliments. Not standard ones. get the weird ones out. The ones they never have heard before but that is true. If you are really attracted
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1062/) - Never been on a date, so I don't really have any idea, but from what I've gathered, dates typically happen earlier than I would like. I also want to get to know someone well before going on a date, but it seems like if you do that, you'll get "friendzoned."
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1048/) - Hi Sarah, The message-centre is located in your profile. This is by default by the software that I use. You van alternatively open a new window by clicking on "private message" while you hold down the ctrl-key (cmd on mac). Then you get a new window or tab where you can write your message which
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1046/) - Whenever I try to private message someone, the site just dumps me into my own profile page. Also, I need to change a detail on my profile and add a pic or avatar, and I can't figure out how
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1041/) - Good point. I've fixed it right away. :) Thanks.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1040/) - I have yet to explore all bits of the site, but one tine detail keeps bugging me. The link to the Forum in the main menu is just an anchor link (#) :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1038/) - It's always a good thing to get your creative juices flowing :) I would say, go for it. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1037/) - I love all programmes that are realistic and entertaining... except comedy doesn't have to be realistic haha I own close to 500 books I think and I like sci-fi and fantasy as well as non-fiction and graphic novels. I took courses at university on writing graphic novels and I enjoyed it much better than TV
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1036/) - Interesting though. I haven't owned a tv for 17 years but tend to get overwhelmed when the tv is on somewhere. I love fiction though. But good unrealistic fiction. Hahah... I really dislike reality shows. I love detective stories with clever plots. :)
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1031/) - You are right. I have become a lot less confused about the world and peoples' intentions since I stopped watching cable television with the advertising. I stream shows and watch netflix but avoid anything that is unrealistic so I don't get confused about real life. I feel much more free now. Now I understand each
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1030/) - If someone doesn't want to take the time to get to know you then they are not worth the effort... Just move on. :) If the conversation catches on and lasts then the interest is in you as a person and not only in sex. I don't think it's geographical determined though. A lot of
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1024/) - I agree with you about taking more time to know someone before going to the dating level. It makes it hard for me in North America because men do not want to take the time to get to know you. Online dating is harder when looking for friendships I find because of the lying I
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1013/) - That is what I am thinking. In the first paragraph at least... Not all NT's are like that but there is a reason why I stared this site. Aspies usually understand Aspies better than most NT's do. And especially when it comes down to relationships then there is a lot less noise on the line.
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1012/) - It's truly mindboggling that people think lying to someone they want to date is a good idea. It is just a huge waste of everyone's time and seems so disrespectful. I like for people to tell me what interests them, maybe we can find something in common and conversation can go from there. When NTs
- [](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/1007/) - I have more or less the same thing. Most NT people will rather not face the facts (ans so they will rather lie to them selves too) while I am all facts. But luckily I have some NT friends that really appreciate my directness and honesty but there are not many that do. When people
- [Reply To: Age Difference](https://www.aspie-singles.com/forums/reply/reply-to-age-difference-2/) - Oldest person I've ever been with was a 39 year old Spanish woman who looked like she was in her mid-20s (I'm 22.)

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